Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji mwana mwamsanga?

Panthawi ina, awiri okwatirana achikondi amadziwa kuti akufuna kukhala makolo. Mwamwayi, lero zikuchitika nthawi zonse, monga lamulo, pafupi zaka 30, ndipo ngakhale pa zaka zolemekezeka kwambiri. Kumbali imodzi, ndi zabwino, chifukwa amaziyandikira moyenera kwambiri ndipo ali okonzeka kuzichita mwamakhalidwe ndi zachuma.

Komabe, pa nthawi ino thupi lidayamba kale, zovuta, kupitirira malire, matenda, matenda osayenera, chizungulire cha moyo, mnyamata wosokonezeka anasiya zizindikiro zake, nthawi zambiri pali matenda enaake. Zonsezi, ndithudi, zingakhudze kubereka kwa amayi ndi abambo. Choncho, nthawi zambiri abambo sangakhoze kutenga mimba mofulumira monga momwe angafunire.

Choncho, ambiri okwatirana ofuna kukhala makolo amakondwera ndi momwe angakhalire ndi mwana msanga. Zimalangizidwa kukonzekera mimba ndipo ndizosangalala kuti lero anthu ambiri akuchita. Monga gawoli, muyenera kuyesedwa kuchipatala, ndi onse awiri. Zimaphatikizapo kudzipereka kwa mayesero oyenerera ndikupita kwa akatswiri ena.

Ndikofunika kuyamba kukonzekera mimba kwa miyezi itatu, ndipo makamaka miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Komabe, kuyezetsa kuchipatala sikukwanira, ndikofunikira kusintha njira ya moyo. Okwatirana ayenera kuyamba kudya bwino, osagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zovulaza, kuyenda tsiku ndi tsiku mlengalenga, kugona, kupumula, osapitirira, kupewa kupanikizika.

Komabe, nkofunika kumvetsa kuti kutenga pakati pa mwana woyamba, ngakhale kukhala ndi thanzi langwiro ndi kukonzekera, sizingakhale zonse. Mpata uli pafupi 20 peresenti. Ndipo apa nkofunika kuti musakhumudwe komanso musakhale wamanjenje, chifukwa kuyambira kwa mimba kumatonthoza kwambiri. Madokotala amalimbikitsa kuyamba kuyamba kudandaula pokhapokha patatha chaka chosayesa.

Ndipo ndibwino kuti musadandaule, koma kupita kwa akatswiri. Mankhwala amakono angathandize kukhala makolo omwe ali ndi mavuto ambiri. Masiku ano, zipangizo zamakono zingapereke mwana wautali kuyembekezera pafupifupi aliyense.

Komabe, ambiri okwatirana akudalira momwe angakhalire ndi mwana nthawi yoyamba motsimikizika. Apanso, timanena kuti izi sizingatsimikizidwe, koma n'zotheka kuwonjezera mwayi waukulu. Chowonadi n'chakuti umuna ukhoza kuchitika kamodzi kokha patsiku la dzira, lomwe silidutsa maola 24.

Nthawi ino imatchedwa ovulation. Choyenera, chiwerewere chiyenera kuchitika nthawiyi. Kwa amayi ambiri, amapezeka masabata awiri asanafike kusamba. Komabe, ngati kayendetsedwe kake sikakhala kosavuta, ndiye kuti njirayi ndi yabwino kusagwiritsiridwa ntchito.

Spermatozoa amakhala ndi masiku asanu, nthawi zina ngakhale sabata, kotero kugonana masiku angapo kusanayambe kutsegulira kumatengera mimba, koma pambuyo pake. Kawirikawiri maanja amakhala ndi chidwi ndi momwe angagwirire mwana wamwamuna. Zimakhulupilira kuti pakuonekera kwa mnyamatayo, amatha kuchita mafoni ambiri, koma umuna umathamanga kwambiri. Kuoneka kwa msungwana, pang'onopang'ono, koma "tadpoles" okhudzika kwambiri amafunika.

Choncho, kodi n'zotheka kudziwa nthawi komanso momwe angakhalire ndi mwana? Kuwonjezera pa kalendala yolondola yomwe yafotokozedwa pamwambapa, pali njira zamakono zamakono. Mwachitsanzo, ndizovuta kugwiritsa ntchito mayesero ovulation. Zimakupatsani inu kuphunzira za izo kwa tsiku ndi kuyamba ntchito yogwira ntchito. Mayesero amagulitsidwa m'masitolo ndipo ali ofanana ndi mafananidwe owonetsera mimba.

Njira yolondola kwambiri yodziwira nthawi ya ovulation ndi follicularogenesis. Komabe, amagwiritsidwa ntchito (kawirikawiri) kale pokhala ndi mavuto omwe ali ndi pathupi, osati pa chiyambi choyesa.

Kotero, ife tinayang'ana momwe tingakhalire ndi mwana mofulumira. Nthawi zina chilengedwe chimasowa thandizo, ngakhale nthawi zambiri zinthu zimachitika palokha. Ndikofunika kukonzekera mimba komanso osadandaula ngati kutenga mimba sikuchitika mofulumira monga momwe mukuyembekezera.