Kodi kukhala bwino kuposa woyambawo, ndi kupambana izo?

Times achinyamata kwathunthu osalakwa ndi achinyamata matchmaker makolo kale. Ife sitiri mofulumira kukwatiwa, koma sitingathe kukhala ndekha ndi anyamata asanalowe m'banja. Pa nthawiyi, pali funso zomveka: mmene bwino kuposa kale?

Ndikufuna kuwona munthu mu ubale nanu ndinali kuganiza za inu, osati za ubale wanu wakale ndi ophunzira kwambiri. Kodi zimatanthauza chiani kukhala "bwino" ndiponso ngati m'pofunika kuyesetsa kuti, kukhala osangalala pa ubwenzi? Tiyeni kaye pa positi.

Best ndi mdani wa zabwino

N'zomvetsa chisoni kuona, nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kukhala bwino mu zonse. N'chifukwa chiyani "Kalanga"? Chifukwa chokhumba chanu chiri kwakukulukulu zachibadwa. Mwina amachititsa maphunziro athu - zambiri makolo kuyambira ali kuuzira ana awo kuti mwina ali bwino, kapena kukhala.

Koma kumbukirani kuti kukhala zabwino sizikutanthauza kukhala osangalala. Lingaliro la "wokongola kwambiri" kapena "wochenjera" pokhapo titachitapo kwambiri, ndipo kuti kuti loterolo, iye akhoza nsembe kwambiri, makamaka nokha ndi khalidwe lanu.

Kodi kukhala bwino kuposa ena? Ndipo ndani ali wabwino Polamula? Ndipo kodi? Inu mukufuna kukhala wokongola Masha ku bwalo wapafupi, kuphika bwino kuposa woyandikana nyumba ndi Kate, ndi nthabwala funnier bwenzi Marina? Ngakhale kuti panali mtundu wa muyeso umene ungampange kuchuluka aliyense wa ulemu wanu, kuti ndinu zokongola ndi wapadera m'njira yomwe muli. Khalani nokha - kuti ndi chikhalidwe chachikulu kuti zabwino!

Koma zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti si koyenera kapena kuyesetsa kuti. Ngati mukuona kuti muyenera kusintha thupi lanu ndi thupi, kapena kuwerenga kwambiri, kukhala bwino ophunzira, kuchita izo. Koma kumbukirani kuti ndi bwino chitukuko lanulo, osati kuti tikhale okongola kwa ena mnyamata.

Kodi kuchira zakale, ndi kupambana izo?

Palibe oukira nkhondo wamwamuna awo ankakonda muligonjetse. Nthawi imene akazi mongotsatira malamulo anadikira kalonga ake pa zenera, wadutsa. Tsopano atsikana "pitani" ndi Nkhata choyamba. Koma pali chosangalatsa kumenya "" munthu? Kodi si kuti agonjetsedwe osati kwathunthu a inu, koma maka kwa kumva monga mkaidi chikondi zikulumikizana wanu?

Tikambirana pansipa njira kuchira (ngati n'kotheka), koma nsonga adzakhala ndi malire zimene zinachitikira, khama lanu akhoza kukhala pachabe.

ubale m'mbuyomu kuti kusokoneza pano wanu

Tiyeni tinene iwe wekha momwe inu muliri, kotero musati cholinga ungwiro zosafunika. Mwakumana ndi woyenera mnyamata, nalowa ubwenzi. Ndipo ... mukuona kuti ubwenzi zapitazi mosalekeza kusokoneza moyo wanu. Mnyamatayo tsopano kenako akukumbukira zowawa zake zakale ndi mawu mtundu, ndipo inu muli kutsutsa chimodzi chokha. Mwangozi ndinaganiza lakuti: bwanji kukhala bwino kuposa woyambawo? Tidzamva mmene tingachitire zimenezi, komanso ngati kuli kofunika kuyesetsa kuti izo.

Kodi ndaphunzirapo kuphika?

Inu bwinobwino kupeza ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndi zabwino, kuti inu mukhoza kutsegula yogurt anu kapena soseji akanadulidwa. Ngati nthabwala ndi kuti mbuye wa bwino bwino mayonesi, za inu, wokwiya mnyamata ndemanga kuti wakale bwenzi msuzi anali chabe zokoma, ndipo mungachite bwino kuganizira chitsanzo kuchokera osati opanda maziko. Yankho la funso: "Kodi kukhala bwino kuposa kale wake" ali ndi yankho yotsimikizika: "Phunzirani mmene kuphika" Atsikanawo anabadwa kukhala chosalimba, okongola ndi zodabwitsa kunyumba. Amuna Akonda akazi akumanga ntchito ndi ntchito, koma si tichepetse perekani udindo kudyetsa mabanja awo.

Choncho ngati mukufuna kukhala bwino mu nkhani iyi, kutenga ena zokambirana ufulu pa chibwenzi, mayi kapena aakazi. Ngati inu mukumvetsa kuti uyu si inu, ndiye ubale sangayerekeze kudzifunsa - kodi mkazi amadwala kufananitsa zonse ndi zakale si mu mtima wake?

Kukhala wokongola (ang'ono, zamasewera)?

Pa ubale wanu, zingatanthauze, zonse zabwino. Koma nthawi ankakonda kwa nthawi ndi mitima chisoni, akuyang'ana chithunzi cha zilakolako zakale, kenako amayang'ana pa inu ndi sizinawasangalatse. Apa muyenera kumvetsa.

Kodi kukhala bwino kuposa kale? Ndipo kuli kofunika? Tiyeni tinene maonekedwe anu si angwiro, ngakhale mukuganiza - mapaundi angapo owonjezera, pakalibe kukoma zabwino zovala kapena mphuno upturned. Koma kodi mukudziwa kuti ndi maso achikondi akutembenukira deficiencies mu wokongola zoumba lapamtima?

Ngati mnyamata palibe kukumbukira nawe m'chikondi ndi umafuna naye kuchita olimba kotero kuti akhale wathanzi ndi wokongola kwambiri ndi chinthu chimodzi. Osati zoipa, ngati kumakupatsani mwayi kuyesa zinthu zatsopano zovala ndi wakulanda inu kuti kugula. Ngati umafuna mumaikonda masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi chifukwa mulibe kukumana abwino wake, zinthu zoipa. Kodi mudzapeza chithunzi cha maloto ake (onani, osati wake), likukhalira kuti inu asawononge kuchita rhinoplasty, kuwonjezera tsitsi kapena chinachake.

Kodi kuchita? Kuposa ena, mukhoza kukhala monga kwa nthawi yochepa, pamene m'chizimezime chidwi voti wanu akuoneka munthu chidwi. Ndiyeno pamaso panu ndi cholinga chatsopano - kuphunzira zilankhulo, kupezeka makalasi a Yoga, kapena kumanga amadzala mu bulu. Wa inu amakana sculpt Galatea, amene Komabe, ngakhale maganizo kapena zofuna.

Kodi kukhala wokonda zabwino?

moyo wogonana ndi salinso chinachake manyazi ndi zambiri kwambiri wosakhwima. Othandiza ndipo ayenera amalankhulana za zilakolako zawo zokonda, kukhumbira. Izi zimathandiza kukakumana wanu ndi omasuka chibwana. Koma inu mukuvomereza, kusiyana yaikulu - ngati mumapereka kukhala omasuka, kapena poyerekeza (osati mu mtima wanu) ndi wakale chibwenzi.

Kodi kukhala wokonda zabwino? Yankho ndi chilengedwe - momasuka ngati kuli kotheka, amatsatira Zilakolako zawo, musati muzichita zimene mukuona zobwera kapena omangika. Nsonga ngati "Taganizani za mnzake" zichoke - mukaganiza za munthu iwe kapolo, kuyambiranso kuwayang'anira ndondomekoyi.

Koma Kuchitira mosamala m'mafanizo. Ngati mphasa yako alipo osankhidwa munthu wina, ndiye zinthu zikhoza kusintha. Umadzikondera wekha ndi ulemu! Ziribe kanthu momwe wabwino mnyamata, inu mukudziwa kuti inu muli mu njira iliyonse oyenera yekha!

Titakhala nzeru

zosasangalatsa kwambiri kuti munthu limatonza inu kupusa. Chabwino, ndithudi, chifukwa iye analibe kumbuyo ndi nkhani yolembedwa ndipo asankha kuti Nobel Prize chaka chatha, choncho kusalima zonse! No? Kotero chifukwa chiyani mnyamata uyu akulola chinachake nadzatonza inu? Ndi wochenjera m'madera onse a chidziwitso? Tiyerekeze simukudziwa malamulo alionse a sayansi kapena si zabwino pa madera, koma amavomereza kuti pali chinachake chimene inu - Ace! Mwachitsanzo, mukudziwa anthu onse a nthawi yathu, mukudziwa mmene kuphika mwina kwambiri amakonda kuwerenga. Palibe anthu amene amadziwa chilichonse. wasayansi aliyense bwino umenewu chifukwa chimene kwathunthu kuphunzira nkhani zambiri zochititsa chidwi kwa iye, abstracted enawo.

Choncho, ngati inu mlandu ndi chopusacho poyerekeza ndi wakale chibwenzi, ndiye vuto ili ndi insoluble. Kodi kukhala bwino kuposa kale mu mkhalidwe umenewu? Inde njira. Ziribe kanthu momwe mukhoza kuwerenga, sudzakhala nzeru zokwanira mu maso ake.

Kusamvana mu pakali pano

Ndipo nanga bwanji ngati tcheru munthu imeneyi kuti kale, ndi pano? Ngati cholinga cha wanu wosankhidwa ndi kumenyana wina? Kodi kukhala mpikisano bwino? Kumbukirani kuti pali makhalidwe amene sangathe quantitatively poyerekeza. N'chifukwa chiyani timakonda munthu ino? chifukwa iye ndi wabwino, kapena chifukwa china chapadera monga ife? chakuti ungapose odana m'zonse, kukhala okongola kwambiri, anzeru, wittier, koma kugwa m'chikondi ndi mwamuna osati mwa inu. Ndikhulupirireni, kuti mu nkhani iyi nkhondo ndi zosayenera. Choncho, pali munthu wina kwa inu, ndipo mpaka inu amangokhala si anakumana. Komabe, msonkhanowo kukhala, ndi mosalephera!

Wina pophika bwino

Ambiri chidwi ndithu, ophunzira atsikana wosasangalala mu moyo wanga wanga. Ndithudi mnzanu woposa amene ndi ochenjera ndi wokongola, koma kopanda anthu. N'chifukwa chiyani? Mwina yankho lake lili ichi - mtsikanayu ali simukudziwa iyeyo ndi sakonda yekha.

Kumbukirani kuti anthu amene amafuna anyamata, mozama mu chikondi, ndipo osati wina ayi, koma mwa ife tokha. Tikulankhulazi siza zachabechabe odwala ndi wathanzi kudzikonda. Mwina mwake, ngati mumagwiritsa nokha, ngati inu akusamalira, ndipo musataye nokha mwano kwa ena, inu kupeza mwayi pa ubwenzi. Mayi wina yemwe amadzikonda yekha adzakhala okondedwa ndi munthu, ndi mpikisano kale kapena panopa sadzakhalanso ndi mwayi.

Ndipo potsiriza,

Inu muli ndi chida chinsinsi, yankho ku funso mmene bwino kuposa woyambawo. Mbali ya yankho kuti muli bwino, inu ndinu abwino, wapadera ndi zachilendo. Ngati mnzanuyo tsopano ndiyeno nayang'ana za kumbuyo mu kalelo chinkhoswe poyerekeza si mu mtima wanu, n'zotheka kuti asapita anthu Kungoti inatha.

Panthawiyi, aliyense wa ife ayenera kukhala ndi kusintha - osati kwa munthu, koma chifukwa cha yake. Choncho zimene sanakonde. Pitani magulu olimba, kuphika maphunziro, kumanga ntchito, kapena kungoti tizisangalala ndi moyo.