Crisis 1 chaka: khalidwe olondola a makolo

Kutopa, kumalire ndi dziko misala - kotero amadziwika nthawi imeneyi zamaganizo Eda Le Shan. Ndipotu kwambiri cholakwika. Kuthana ndi chaka choyamba cha moyo, mavuto ndi zotheka ngati chisanadze ntchito njira yoyenera ya khalidwe.

Zimayambitsa mavutowo

Pafupi ndi tsiku loyamba la kubadwa kwa mwana makolo kuyamba ndi kuyamba zindikirani anadabwa kuti mwana wa ankasinthana omvera ndi zabwino cholengedwa amavutitsa mwamtheradi, kumvetsa kuti sangathe. The mwana nthawi akuti "ayi" anakana kwa nthawi yaitali kuti tisagone, wosamvera, usawataye wa sitepe limodzi, "vrednichaet" pa chakudya amalimbana pa malo osewerera lapansi. Zimene zinam'chitikira? Yankho lake ndi losavuta: vuto la chaka choyamba cha moyo.

Chifukwa chachikulu khalidwe yoipa ya mwana ndi ankadziwa yekha palokha munthu. ufulu amenewa amasonyeza mphamvu mwanayo kusuntha mosadalira makolo awo akuyamba mapangidwe kulankhula bwino, kukopera makhalidwe amayi ndi abambo kapena abale ndi alongo. masiteji onse awa a chitukuko cha mwana ndi kuyambitsa zosavomerezeka, ku maganizo a akulu khalidwe.

Nthawi chimango cha gawo la moyo lidakali kwambiri ndipo angathe kutenga nthawi zaka kuyambira miyezi 10 mpaka zaka 2. mphindi ino moyo wa mwana ndi wofunika kwa zindikirani, chifukwa 1 chaka yovuta ngati kuphunzitsa mwana ali pa njira ya mavuto kwa zaka zitatu. Ndipo mmene zinthu makolo amadalira mmene iwo adzakhala gawo lotsatira la chitukuko cha mwana.

strategy wamkulu khalidwe

Ngati makolo zindikirani kuti vuto la chaka choyamba cha moyo, iwo azibwera palimodzi ndi kukambirana momwe kugawana ndi kuyankha izi kapena kuti mwana kanthu.

Vuto: zokhumba ndi ungovernability. Yankho: kuugwira mtima ndi kumvetsa kusiyana pakati pa chipwirikiti ndi mkhalidwe woipa wa thanzi la mwanayo. Pamsinkhu uwu, ngakhale ena kulankhula kupambana, mwana akadali si otsimikiza mukhoza kufotokoza maganizo awo. Choncho, chophweka njira kupanga zoyenera kuposa kulongosola zimene iwo akadali zofunika. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kulira kapena mkwiyo wanu mwa njira ina iliyonse. Mwana anali ndi mantha. M'malo mwake, kusiya kwa angapo Mphindi. Ngati izi si kuthandiza, muyenera kusinthana kuganizira chinthu china, monga chidole amalikonda kapena mbalame kunja pa zenera. Crisis 1 chaka cha moyo nthawi limodzi ndi osaneneka chabe, ndi chifukwa Mulimonsemo tisalole mwana wanu kukwaniritsa kufunika ntchito asiye kuvuta.

Vuto: ndi zonse "ayi". Yankho: Pewani ankasinthana zoipa m'mawu ake.   Crisis 1 chaka kawirikawiri kwambiri limodzi ndi zoletsa zambiri, ndi chifukwa "ayi" ndi mawu a pafupipafupi ndipo mofulumira akulowa mawu a mwanayo, kukhala ankakonda wake. Mwanayo kwenikweni monga thonje, ndi khalidwe lake pa m'badwo mu malo oyamba, ndi chinyezimiro cha makhalidwe a makolo. Kotero mayi ndi bambo ayenera m'malo "sapita", "musataye", "sangathe" ntchito "pitani mawa", "akazi, koma kenako", "izo zikanakhoza kukupwetekani inu."

Vuto: kukana masana kugona. Yankho: kugwilizana ndi "miyambo" stacking. mavutowo chikwiyire ndi 1 chaka otaya yaikulu ya nkhani, amene analandira ndi mwana, ndipo mwana amatha zimamuchulukira wamanjenje dongosolo. Choncho ola pamaso masana kugona muyenera kusamutsa mwana mode chete - kuwerenga buku kapena chakudya.

Vuto: ndakhala mthunzi wa makolo awo. Yankho: Onetsetsani kuti nthawi zonse adzakhala naye. mavuto 1 chaka nthawi zambiri limodzi ndi chakuti mwanayo mantha kusiya makolo awo. Choncho sapotoza kuti kupatukana Chrixitu. Ziyenera kukhala amangokhalira kulankhula naye, ngakhale ngati makolo ali mu chipinda lotsatira, kusewera ndi chikopa mwana ndi kufunafuna, pang'onopang'ono amakonda chakuti mayi si, koma ndithudi tidzabwerera.

Vuto: Ine kudya. Yankho: sapotoza iye kudya. mavuto 1 chaka kumagwirizana mapangidwe kadyedwe mwana. Choncho, ngati mwanayo anayamba kukana chakudya anapereka, sayenera kukakamizidwa kuchita chiwawa. Amapereka zosiyanasiyana zimene mungachite kuti chakudya, asanadye koyenda yaitali, afunseni nokha kudya.

Vuto: kulankhulana ndi anzawo. Yankho: kugonjera chitsanzo chanu. Choyamba, makolo ayenera kusonyeza kunyumba, momwe kugawana ndi ena, monga pamafunika kulankhulana ndi anthu ena. Pa nthawi ngati zimenezi, mwana ayenera zolumikizana. Pang'onopang'ono, makhalidwe ena adzaukitsidwa mu chizolowezi chake ndipo lidzasendera ku banja kulankhulana ndi achinyamata.

1 chaka mavuto zitha kupewedwa, ndalama zokha kuyesetsa olowa kudzilimbitsa ndimeyi wake.