Chilango Mnyozo

Bwanji chindapusa kwa otsutsa? Ndipotu, mirandu - ndi kumenyedwa maganizo amene amasiya moyo mikwingwirima ndi zipsera. Koma, mwatsoka, azamalamulo chitonzo si ikuchitika ndi satifiketi kumenyedwa mtima saloledwa. X-ray musati akuunikireni maganizo amatopa umunthu. Ndewu mukhoza kupitiriza ndi kulangidwa kusokoneza mnyozo mpweya, kuwongolera luso lawo mlandu, chilema, chitonzo, chilema, kubaya ndi shpynyat popanda kudandaula nsembe. Kuyambira kasewenzetsedwe ka mau amenewa amene amasonyeza akamanena za atamunamizira kuti, akufuna ayizembe monga tsamba wakupha. Palibe zodabwitsa iwo amanena kuti mawu ali moyo. Mnyozo kuonekera mu chikumbu mu mawonekedwe a kubowola-kudula chida. Amene kulasa munthu ndi choboolera, ndipo ena syringes chifukwa cholimbana njovu limatonza dziko la munthu wina, kuyesera kuti malamulo awo uko, ndi kubweretsa kulamulira. Chitonzo - kumasonyeza mkwiyo ndi kudwala-chinabisidwa mokwiya. Chitonzo - ndi njira kusonyeza kufunika kwa Atchule yokha kapena chakuti nkofunika kwa ine ndi mtima wofuna kusintha zina, popanda kusintha yokha.

Dokotala anafunsa mkaziyo grumpy: "Pamene inu chitonzo manyazi mwamuna wake, kwenikweni, kodi inu akuyembekezera kuti kudzudzulidwa ndipo adzakhala ngati inuyo? Ngati iye akufuna kuti adziwe zoona za zolakwa zawo, iye anabwera kwa ine ndipo zikundida choonadi ichi. N'chifukwa chiyani chitonzo chimayambitsa chidani mwamuna wake? "

The zifukwa chitonzo. Mizu ya Mnyozo wathu kubisala mwana. Limatonza - matenda otengera kwa makolo. Ngati makolo opanda chitonzo pa tebulo sanali pansi, owona patokha (chikumbumtima malingaliro) onse adasungidwa mu chikwatu "olakwika khalidwe" ndipo tsopano peddled Mnyozo kuti "zamatsenga kuukira" pa munthu wina. Anaphatikizana "mwambo wa banja lanu" amakhala maganizo kolowera khalidwe m'banja. Ngati mayi, agogo, mlongo, chibwenzi, zolembalemba, kapena cinematic khalidwe anadutsa moyo masitepe chitonzo, kuti mzere wa khalidwe amakhala otchuka dona wamng'ono. Pamene iye akuti, "Mnyozo si ntchito," iye anayang'ana pa zatyukali, ofooka wofuna mwamuna, grinning naganiza kuti: "ntchito. Ngakhale kuti ntchito. "

Chifukwa mnyozo, kuwonjezera pa maphunziro, ndipo peeped ana khalidwe dongosolo achikulire zobwezedwa. Choyamba, ndi - yochepa maganizo. "Ine ndinaganiza, ine ndikuyembekezera, koma kunapezeka" - awa ndi mawu a ziyembekezo ndi kunyengedwa ndi kumugwetsera ziyembekezo. Ndimafuna kuti akathyole kalonga, ndipo analandira wogwirizira. Kodi uyu si chifukwa kusokoneza mkwiyo pa chala? Mu ntchito zinalephereka mlandu dziko ndi anthu ena, zimene kotero kwakukuru kuika Jon Mtanda -. "Akuganizira yokha louts" mlandu iwo, mulole gnawing chikumbumtima, chifukwa kunyengedwa ziyembekezo.

Mnyozo sayenera adzabweretsa chilungamo ndi kukwaniritsa maganizo wodzikuza. Milandu - chida champhamvu kulimbitsa kunyada. Uprekantu nosebleed kufunika kukhalabe kufunika kwake. Mtengo zinthu ndekha, diamondi, magalimoto, analeredwa, ma yatchi ndi chikondi yekha pamafunika kuonjezera kufunika kwake mu maso ake ndi maso a ena. Ndiyeno bummer - mwamuna (wokonda) sindikufuna kapena akhoza kupinda ku zofuna za wonyansa mkazi "Kalanga". Patapita ndi kumudzudzula lobaya. Iye akhumudwa, nkhawa, akataya osauka ndipo sasangalala. Koma chifukwa chenicheni chitonzo mu zoyesayesa zake "wopanda amasonyeza wolemera" kusonyeza awo "steepness" kufunika.

Tiyang'ane uprekanta patalipatali. ndi makhalidwe izo zimayambitsa chiyani? Choyamba, pepani, udani ndi mkwiyo. Kawirikawiri, ndi neurotic, munthu wosasangalala, akunga tizivutika ndi mavuto kapena anthu ndi kumadziona kuti ndine wolephera. Zimachitika kuti patsogolo pathu ndi ofooka, anthu wosimidwa, pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kuthandiza atamunamizira awo Ya zina chifukwa cha recriminations yosavuta - makhalidwe, chogwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kapena kusakhutira kugonana. Ngati mkazi akulira usiku, iye grumbles tsiku. Nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa chitonzo zobisika mu chikhalidwe uprekanta. Ena kugonana ndipo osafunika ngati mukhoza kupeza chimwemwe mavuto komanso mavuto a munthu wina. Choncho Makar, mungakweze wanu kudzidalira, amanena okha likuvutika ena. Ndipo mukhoza kupeza mphamvu ya mtima amatayika mu nkhondo pa maziko a atamunamizira. Anasokonezeka atamunamizira "adya mano" zosawerengeka ku kukhumudwa, okhumudwa ndi adatayika, ndipo recharged uprekant ichi mphamvu mwiniwake maganizo ndi m'malo rubs manja. Nthawi yotsatira Iye akufuna "kudya" Iye Mnyozo kachiwiri kutsegulanso wovulalayo kupalamula, timafuna kusangalala kapena kuopa kukhala yekha.

Mafomu chitonzo. Izi zida kuluma ntchito zosiyanasiyana akalumikidzidwa chodabwitsa. Kudzudzula wotchuka mwachindunji pamene uprekant mwachindunji diso mlandu chinachake adzanyazitsa ochitiridwayo, kulengeza ndi zowombetsa mkota lakuthwa zoipa evaluative malo. Nature wakumanitsa mkazi mphamvu, kotero iye mwangwiro katswiri luso chiwawa cha m'maganizo. Nthawi zambiri atamunamizira mwachindunji kusonyeza mumanyozera, ananyozedwa ndi achipongwe khalidwe lokonda wovulalayo. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndinu palibe chabwino chilichonse", "chiguduli, osati munthu", "manja anu musati kukula kunja", "Chirichonse chimene inu sindimakonda anthu." atamunamizira Direct mfundo kusatsatira, inattention kwa mkazi yekha ndipo ana kwa makolo ake, wosafuna kuthana ndi mavuto a m'banja, owonongedwa ntchito kapena moyo onse: "Ine imawonongeka ndi chinjoka chimenechi zaka zofunika kwambiri za moyo wanga", "Mayi anandiuza ine, athawe kwa iyo woluza. " Ngati mukufuna mbola zambiri, lophimba kuti atamunamizira mwachindunji, ulemu ulemu kugonana wa munthu, "Inu - osati munthu," "Inde! Ndipo inu muli ndi ndalama pang'ono, nayenso. " Kuyambira Mnyozo munthu wotere akukumana kwambiri maganizo, nkhawa ndi kukaikira amayamba kusonyeza odzikayikira, iye akhoza kugwa, ndi kudzidalira, osati izo. atamunamizira amenewa, amuna ndi kudziona ndi kulakwa ndipo kanikizirani kwa "leftist". Mabala a kunyada munthu ndi kutsimikizira kufunika chachimuna imagwera pa mbali.

No zochepa chowawa ndi poyerekeza kapena ophimbidwa atamunamizira. Pa mtima cha dumbo lawo ndi kuchenjerera. Nthawi zina kuwomba zikuipiraipirabe kuposa atamunamizira mwachindunji. Mkaziyu akuti: "Inu mukudziwa, mnansi anagula mkazi wake galimoto", "Mosiyana ndi zina bwana wanga alidi munthu," "Inde, kuti Ivanova inu kusambira ndi kusambira," "Ndipo mwamuna mnzake ..." poyerekeza chitonzo zikugwirizana lachitatu maphwando ndi kuphunzitsa osati mu mtima wa munthu wovulalayo ndi kuti ndi umagwiritsidwa ntchito wovulalayo. anamvetsa n'zachabechabe ndipo mazunzidwe.

Mnyozo ntchito kudzera popanda mawu n'komwe: manja maganizo ndi chete akufa. Ndi mphamvu ya mmene anawakalipira sanali wapakamwa si wochepa ndi anzawo a mawu, ndipo nthawi zambiri angawapatse zana mfundo azilema. Kumbukirani "Utsi" Turgenev, "Irina ngakhale zikope osati kukweza nakhala chete, ndi kumwetulira zoipa nkhope yake wachisoni; ndi makolo ake, amene kumwetulira Mnyozo chilichonse chowawa kwambiri ndiponso amaona wolakwa, mlandu popanda mlandu kwa chinthu ichi. "

Zoipa mungathe iyeyo. Ndiye ife kusankha kudziletsa chitonzo, monga Mwachitsanzo mu "Utsi" Turgenev a, "wokondedwa wanga! Ndinali usiku wonse kuganiza za maganizo mwako ... Ndidzakhala osati dissemble ndi inu .... Ine sangathamange ndi inu, Ine sindingakhoze kuchita izo. Ndikumva ngati kuti ndine wolakwa pamaso panu; chachiwiri chinali vuto langa zambiri choyamba - ndimanyozera ndekha, wamantha wanga, ine amapatsa Mnyozo yekha, koma Sindingathe kusintha ndekha ". A zosinthika wodzilamulira mnyozo ndi minyozo ya chikumbumtima.

    Kodi anthu kuchita ndi mnyozo? Ambiri kuchita kanthu, chifukwa recriminations - ndi omasuka kuwadziŵa ku mzere ubwana wa khalidwe. Mu danga la mnyozo iwo asavutike monga nsomba pa madzi. Mabanja ambiri amakhala, mu maganizo awo, woyenera ndi osangalala mlandu mazana mzake wa pa tsiku. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zowononga mphamvu chitonzo anasintha akumvekera. M'pofunika kuti intonation ndi adawomba zolemba za "kugunda". pali mawu ena mu nyimbo Vaenga "Inde" "Inde, ziribe kanthu chimene inu anati, kaya motani, ndipo kodi." Ndi "mmene" zimadalira. The chododometsa, koma palinso wofatsa chitonzo. Mwachitsanzo, mu Turgenev a "Ace": "Gagin moni ine mu njira wochezeka, amapatsa ine ndi chitonzo modekha."

Nsonga mmene kuchotsa chitonzo cha moyo wake.

        Ambiri atamunamizira si zoona. Mwana mayi adzaitana ndipo anadandaula: "Mayi, mwamuna osayamika lino kachiwiri kudya buckwheat" - "Mwanawe, ndipo ndimamuuza mmene mwayesapo, pamene akamaphika!" - "uthenga ulalikidwa-Panko, choncho m'pofunika kuphika ??! .. "chitonzo - ndi alowererepo pa moyo wathu, kudzikonza ife kanthu malinga ndi zoyembezereka za ena. Ife chikangoperekedwa ndi chifuniro ena ndi wina akufuna kubwerera ife uprekanta zone kulamulira. Koma ife sitikhala ndi zoyembezereka za ena, ndipo ali ndi ufulu kukhala okha, ndi mzake. Uprekant zambiri "mabwenzi" ndi munthu amene si bwino kufunika awo ndi mphamvu ya kupalamula. Nthawi zina kamodzi kokha ndi zokwanira kunena uprekantu kuti sadzalekerera mlandu kuima ndi kucheza monga choncho, ngati mwawo.

Mwamtheradi sangathe wolungama. Ndi axiom. Osawerenga otsutsa si nzeru - kungakhale mokwiya kwambiri. Mukhoza kumasulira nthabwala onse, koma osati kulungamitsidwa. Zifukwa - umboni mlandu. Mzimayi nawo kutengeka mosadziwa angalankhule chinachake chapadera. Zifukwa inu modzidzimutsa kutsimikizira n'loonadi atamunamizira ake. Osati kuti sakulakwitsa bwino mvetserani kwa zifukwa powatchulira, ndipo ngati iwo ali waukulu, muyenera kuganizira mmene khalidwe lawo kuwaletsa m'tsogolo. Mungachite kuti chitonzo cha Izitu n'zovutitsa. Choncho mawu, "Inu ndinu nthawi zonse angamachite zinyalala" tikhoza kuyankha: "Chinthu chachikulu kuti Ndakhala anakapezeka malo ena."

Kodi wokhudza ife uprekant? Pa mphamvu ya kupalamula, timatha kusangalala ndi mantha kusungulumwa. Kodi mukufuna kusiya m'gulu la anthu nthawi zonse kunyozedwa, kusonyeza mafani onse kudzudzulidwa kuti mulibe kukatenga pa amadziimba mlandu, nzeru kwambiri a ntchito ndi mantha yekha. Kotero inu kumana kunyumba uprekanta wanu maziko niwosatonza.

Chitonzo - matamando ndi chizindikiro chochotsera. Ngati munthu wapanikizika ndi mnyozo, ndiye wosweka izo matamando. Choncho, muyenera kukokera ku makhalidwe a matamando. Pamene iwo lofanana mbali mapewa ake, milandu inaleka Changu kapena kuthawa alendo monga sanatiitane. Njira Onetsetsani kusunga munthu - kum'tamanda kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna mwamuna wako ndakwanitsa kuchita chinthu - kum'tamanda kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna mwamuna wako ndimaganiza kuti kwambiri wokongola ndi wokongola - kum'tamanda kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti mirandu akugwira ntchito ndi inu. Man - zimenezi ndi cholinga. Mkazi - ndi udindo ubwenzi ndi chilakolako. Mnyozo kusokoneza ubwenzi ndi kumanga matamando. Ubwenzi Zomangamanga - mkazi.

Perekani chikondi ndi chidwi beloveds awo. Mukatero kuyiwala za mnyozo ndi ndendende.