Banja ndi Banja: Kodi kupewa mavuto m'banja?

Banja lililonse wagawo ndi banja akagonana ndi kudutsa nthawi zosiyanasiyana pa moyo. Pali nthawi ofunda ndi mokhudza, ndipo pali kusamvana ndi ozizira. Pali zinthu zokondweretsa Yehova. Komabe, m'banja kwambiri kuti anthu ambiri, ngakhale mavuto onse ndi mavuto. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi yachibadwa m'banja ndi wokondedwa wanu, yesetsani kukumbukira mavuto amene angakhalepo. Pafupifupi mavuto onse m'banja pogona mu asapita a akazi ndi mzake.

Nkofunika osati logwirana mavuto awa ndi kufuna kuthetsa pamodzi. Choncho, tiyeni tikambirane zimene zingathandize okwatirana kuthetsa mavuto.

Kusaona mtima. mgwirizano uliwonse, chirichonse chimene iwo mwina, ndiyenera kukhala woonamtima. Wokondedwa nthawi zonse adzakhala wokhoza kumva onyenga. Ngati mukufuna kubweretsa ndi inu moona mtima, maganizo za mnzanuyo, ndipo mudzakhala kuti khalidwe lokonda musiya kwambiri. Popanda chowonadi cha chikondi chanu sadzapulumuka.

Kupanda Olemba. Ngati tikulingalira mgwirizano mu banja, ndiye yaitali mgwirizano amphamvu si zotheka ngati pamene anthu alibe Olemba ndi mzake. zinsinsi zonse zimene kubisala, nthawi zidziwike, chifukwa kuyesera kutsegula kwa mzake ndipo mudzaona mmene ubwenzi adzakhala ubale wanu.

Chosowa ubwenzi. ukwati ambiri amphamvu ndi banja analandira ngati iwo ali omangidwa pa mawu wochezeka. Lingaliro la chikondi pa mbali ya kuwerenga maganizo tinganene kuti ndi kugawa mu masiteji atatu waukulu. Choyamba - ndi chilakolako, lingaliro la wamba, Eros. Gawo lachiwiri - ubwenzi wolimba, Philos. Ndipo kukwaniritsidwa kwa ichi - kukumbatirana chikondi, Agape. Si Philos ndi mkhalapakati pakati pa akuwuka chilakolako ndi chikondi, zikugwirizana iwo mwamphamvu. Choncho, mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu ayenera kukhala bwenzi lanu, choyamba amaphunzira za zisangalalo zanu ndi zisoni, zikayenda ndi nkhawa. Kumva ndi ngakhale pafupi kwambiri.

Inattention. Inu simungakhoze kukhala pamodzi ndi samapereka kumvetetsana wina ndi mzake. Yesani zambiri kuti akondweretse mwamunayo mawu abwino. Ife tonse tikufuna chikondi ndi chisamaliro, muyenera kumva kuti timawawerengera. Kodi kulankhula zambiri mtundu ndi mawu achikondi.

Kulephera kulankhulana. Lingaliro la ukwati ndi banja ubale wamphamvu, poyamba pa zonse, pamafunika kulankhulana yosatha pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Patapita nthawi yaitali, anakhala pamodzi, anthu ndimangoima alankhulana. Madzulo, kubwera kunyumba, aliyense amayamba kuchita zofuna zake. Koma zamaganizo kuti m'banja kukhala mphamvu yawo mu amalankhulitsana azilemekeza. Komanso, kulankhulana sayenera kukhala mawu tsiku ndi tsiku, ayenera kukhala zonse kunachitika kukambirana. Lankhulani nkhani chidwi inu, kambilanani, kukangana. Yesetsani n'kupita okha ndi kupeza zinthu wamba.

Kulephera kukhululukira. Ganizilani mfundo zonse zimene muyenera kukhululukirana wina ndi mnzake, mwinamwake izo kudziunjikira ndipo kofunika mphamvu wofala wa Kumwambamwamba, amene mawondo kale kunjenjemera. Musayambe manyazi chifukwa chakuti munthu anaponya wamsuwachi kapena sanapange zinyalala. Si onse amene akanafa.

Kulephera kumvera. M'pofunikanso kwambiri ubwenzi. Luso lomvetsera mnzanuyo. Ngati mnzanu chinthu chowawa, izo kwenikweni ayenera kulankhula, iye adzakhala nanu ndipo ndithu kukhala legche.V nthawi yotsatira mwayi wolankhula wapereka kale ndipo inu adzakhala mosavuta.

Ndipo pomaliza. M'banja amphamvu kwambiri ngati zinthu zoipa inu mwachifundo kumwetulira mnzanuyo. Kukhala ndi kumwetulira ndi nthawi mosavuta. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti muyenera kukhala woumira, kupereka mzake ndi nzeru, mudziwa kupatsa. Mukatero chophweka kwambiri kukonda ndi kukondedwa!