Amayanjana - ndi chiyani ichi? ndi cholinga cha amayanjana, mavuto amene munthu akuona kufunikira kwa amayanjana chiyani?

Ine ndikutsimikiza ambiri a inu munamvapo kamodzi yapamwamba masiku ano mawu "amayanjana". Mawu amenewa anachokera ku amayanjana English, kutanthauza "kugwirizana", "kulankhulana". Mawu amenewa ntchito zamaganizo kudziwa mlingo wa zinthu zofunika kwa munthu kulankhulana, ubwenzi, kugwirizana maganizo, chikondi. Amayanjana - ndi kukhala ndi abwenzi, wina thandizo, thandizo kuwatengera anthu ena, kucheza ndi ena. Kufunika kwa kulankhulana zimadalira kalembedwe maphunziro, izo aumbike mwa kugona ndi anzawo ndi makolo, ndipo nakweza ndi zimene kungadzutse nkhawa, nkhawa, odzikayikira. Zikatero, mogwirizana ndi anthu ena amathandiza pansi zinawachitikira. Ngati kuganiza amayanjana ndi oletsedwa, pali kumverera kwa mphamvu, kusungulumwa boma kukhumudwa. Asayansi atsimikizira kuti thanzi la munthu n'zogwirizana ndi zosowa zake kulankhulana.

chilimbikitso

moyo wathu N'zovuta kulingalira popanda wina zolinga okhudzidwa: chilakolako Mokhumbira, chuma chawo, mphamvu, kuthandiza mnzake ndi kufunika kulumikizana - onse amene kudziwa ubale wa munthu kwa anthu nkhundu mwace. Tiyeni tione zimene ndi chimodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri - cholinga cha amayanjana. Ali:

• kufunika kwa kukambirana nthawi (ngakhale mu nkhani kanthu);
• kukhazikitsidwa kwa ojambula, Gona (kufuna amaona m'pamene anthu ena);
• ndi kuuzako ena mavuto awo (tonse nthawi zina timafunika "chovala" imene mukhoza kudandaula).

motif izi, ndi njira, akuwonetseredwa osati anthu komanso nyama, koma poyamba ananena owala kwambiri, chifukwa anthu mu mphamvu ya maganizo amatha dongosolo chitukuko cha ubale wawo, kudziyerekeza kukhala malo a wina, ndi zina zotero.

Amayanjana - izo ...

Mu maganizo, kuyambira kalekale anthu akhala akuphunzira chikhalidwe zosowa za anthu. Kwa zaka zambiri kafukufuku, asayansi anafika vutoli: ndi ubwenzi wa anthu kusintha udindo thanzi. Ogwiritsa amene moyo anati zikulumikizana ofooka chikhalidwe zambiri sachedwa kufa msanga kusiyana ndi amene amathandiza banja ndi abwenzi, ndi mabwenzi apamtima ndi maphwando United pagulu kapena chipembedzo mayanjano. Akatswiri Chifinishi, amene ntchito kuphunzira milandu imfa mmodzi wa akazi a theka lake lachiwiri, adapeza kuti mwa sabata pambuyo pa imfa ya / mkazi mwamuna wamasiye / wosiyidwa amawonjezera ngozi ya imfa yadzidzidzi. Choncho, mu chikondi chilinganizo "iwo anakhala mosangalala mpaka kalekale ndipo anafa tsiku lina" choonadi mu dongosolo la ukulu woposa zopeka.

N'chifukwa thanzi zimadalira amayanjana?

Chikutanthauza akufotokoza zambiri za mfundo. Mwina anthu amene ali pa ubwenzi wabwino, bwino wokula, ndi zambiri analamula moyo, bwino m'bungwe ndi zochepa sachedwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Pambuyo mwatcheru chimatilimbikitsa kusamalira thanzi lawo, ndi iwo eni, nthawi zambiri sitikumana kofunika chifukwa izo. Komanso, kuchirikiza m'dera lathu bwino kupenda zochitika kupitirirabe ndipo amathandiza kuthetsa mavuto. Achibale ndi mabwenzi kuthandiza wathu kudzidalira, malangizo awo wochezeka, kutonthoza, kumutsimikizira ndi mankhwala abwino mu mphindi pamene tikuchita ndi kudana anakhudzidwa munthu, kutsutsidwa pachithunzichi, kukana zodzinenera. anthu amtundu kupereka kuona kuti amakondedwa, anavomera ndipo kulemekezedwa. Ndipo anthu opanda mavuto awo yekha ndipo sangalankhule kunja, ndi pangozi yaikulu ya kudwala matenda, chifukwa zinthu zonse kuti apitirizebe kwa iyemwini, koma, monga ife tikudziwira, matenda onse - kuchokera misempha.

Kufunika kwa kulankhulana wina ndi osiyana

chinthu chodabwitsa - luso, sichoncho? Lero, ngati ife tikufuna munthu zolankhulirana, tikhoza kupempha iye pa foni kapena kutumiza imelo, kulemba uthenga pa Intaneti chikhalidwe kapena kukumana ntchito ma webukamu. Koma anthu mwachibadwa timafunitsitsa titadziwa chifukwa chilichonse, muyenera kulankhulana pamasom'pamaso, maso ndi maso, kufunika kubwera pamodzi, kukumbatirana, kugwirana chanza wina ndi mzake, PHWA pa nsana, kuti alira chinachake mu khutu lake. Kodi mukudziwa kuti pali mbali mu ubongo wa munthu, anakonzedwa kuzindikira nkhope pamene ife kuona nkhope bwino, mbali ya ubongo, ngati unali mosangalala.

Ndipo komabe aliyense kulankhulana osiyana akufuna. Ndithudi mwa anzanu pali anthu amene sadzakusiyani kukhala kunyumba, ndi maphwando amatumikira ndi zochitika ... iwo sangafikire nokha, nthawi zonse anthu, ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, anzanu, makasitomala, ndi aliyense, koma osati yekha. Ndipo, nthawi zambiri, inunso muli abwenzi, kutsogolera moyo kwaokha. Anthu amenewa sindimakonda kwambiri okha, amakonda kucheza ndi achibale ndi tikalowe atsopano. Izi ndi mbali ziwiri, mitengo iwiri ya gulu zovuta amatchedwa "amayanjana". Mawu amenewa amasonyeza mlingo wa mmene mukufuna kucheza anthu monga inu amalimbikitsidwa.

Owerenga ndi kufunika otsika kulankhulana

Amakonda kukhala ndekha, chifukwa umu ndi m'mene iwo tikwaniritse zotsatira zabwino. Si kuti iwo kusowa chikhalidwe luso kulankhulana, koma iwo safuna aliyense mu zawo danga. Anthu amenewa anawononga kucheza naye nthawi yaitali, pambuyo pali kufunika kuti ayambenso mphamvu, kukhala ndekha naye. Munthu ndi otsika amayanjana zambiri kupewa kukumana ndi atsopano, iye ali pafupi kulankhula ndi ochepa anthu kuposa "imagwedeza" mwa chingwe wosatha wa nkhope latsopano. Anthu oterewa ali palokha ndipo kudzidalira, iwo safuna kwambiri zimene anthu ena amachita, iwo kawirikawiri amatengeka ndi zopanda pake kapena mphekesera, koma amakonda kuganizira miyoyo yawo.

Anthu ndi kufunika mkulu kulankhulana

Amayanjana - ndi wovuta gulu. Ena kupewa pamwamba pa kulankhulana, pamene ena akopeka anthu, ngati mmene njenjete amakopeka ndi moto ndipo palibe chimene angachite izo. anthu oterewa atha kuyambitsa kukambirana ndi mlendo kwathunthu mu sitima ndi ndege, ngakhale mu ima pamzere. Polankhulana, iwo ndikungomverera kuti akukhala. Kuwazungulira amaona moyo wa kampani, instigators. Gahena kwa anthu awa - ntchito nokha, kokha atazingidwa ndi anzake, iwo akhoza iyende bwino, chifukwa nthawi zonse mufunika kugawana maganizo, kugawana maganizo, kukambirana chilichonse. Akakhala pagulu, anthu ndi cholinga lalikulu la amayanjana ndazindikira anthu ena zabwino, kotero iwo anayamba kulankhula nawo ndi mfundo zabwino. Izi amalenga mkombero wa HIV kulankhulana, amalenga kumverera kwa chitonthozo ndi chikhulupiriro ngakhale pamene zimavuta ndi alendo.