Ages anayi Chikondi, kapena Chikondi akula

Mu Tsiku Zabwino Valentine okonda (pa masiku ena) ali ndi ufulu kulandira, osati achinyamata, komanso anthu amene amakonda anagwidwa mu mukadzakula. Akonde chimodzimodzi kutifotokozera kuposa achinyamata, mwinanso kuposa pamene anali achinyamata. Ngati izi zikumveka ngati ntchito, inu mukhoza kuganiza kuti ndi. Film ndi TV kawirikawiri akamachita mabanja okalamba yomenyera chilakolako. Koma pamene izo zikuchitika, n'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti iwo ali nazo izo bwino? Zingamvekere zaka mchitidwewu.

Chikondi, ukalamba ndi mafilimu a kanema

Mu mafilimu a kanema athu kamodzi filimu "Moscow sakhulupirira Misozi" Vladimir Menshov anganene nkhani yeniyeni ya ubale wa anthu a anthu achikulire. Kunja tingachipeze powerenga nkhani zachikondi (monga "wapita ndi Mphepo") ali ataima mu malo oyamba mavoti onse ndipo kafukufuku.

Sergeya Mokritskogo "Zinayi Ages Chikondi" film, linatuluka mu 2010, zikusonyeza ubale wa okhwima ndi okalamba. Koma filimuyi anawomberedwa ndi mtima ozizira, luso nyumba mafilimu a kanema wachoka ming'alu onse, ndi kuvumbitsira onani alibe choonadi yofunika kwambiri kagawo chomwecho ndi kusiyiratu.

The zina zimene tikuona tsiku lililonse pa wailesi yakanema ndi m'mafilimu - ndi testosterone, lomwe likutuluka kasupe, ndipo si zoipa, pang'ono ngati zimene zimachitika mu moyo weniweniwo.

Ages anayi Chikondi

Daily moyo, kutipatsa chochitika pang'onopang'ono amasintha, nthawi zina kupanga izo mwamsanga kuti sitinali nthawi muone mibadwo inayi ya chikondi. Youth iri yofulumira mofulumira, kusiya chikondi choyamba cha chipsera mtima, akudutsa achinyamata categorical ndi Mwambi ake: "Onse kapena kanthu" Kunadza kukhwima aluntha ndipo kenako ukalamba mwakachetechete kwambiri sneaks mu slippers myagkh. Sitingathe ndalama zaka wake wamng'ono, sikuthandiza, ndi chilakolako. Palibe mwayi kusintha chinachake, pali kukumbukira kapena chisoni zimene zinali kapena kukhala. M'mbuyomu watibweretsa ife mpaka lero, kuti zipatso kuti tigwiritse ntchito thandizo, chisamaliro ndi chikondi.  

Mwachidule, akazi angapo angagaŵire kuona banja. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mibadwo yonse anayi chikondi wosatenga zotsatira zabwino ndi zokumana ndi anyamata sichikwiya ndi moyo. Mbiri ya chimphepo cha ubale wa anthu zingakhale zosangalatsa koma nthawi zina zimabweretsa kuyesayesa amamupeza kukonza moyo wake. Mukhoza kudikira zaka zambiri Rhett Butler, nanga chitsimikizo kuti iye osachepera limodzi mwa magulu lomwelo limene inu mudzakhala. Kufunafuna apitirize kwa nthawi yaitali inu mukuzindikira kuti aliyense (ngakhale sexiest wa ife) amabwera mu ubwenzi ndi moyo wake katundu.

Mu zaka kuchepekela ndi chikondi si kunja kwa moyo, izo basi itsekeke pang'ono M'maso, kuyang'ana pa moyo zothandiza. Kukumbukira njira anayendayenda, mibadwo ake anayi chikondi, inu mukudziwa kuti nthawi iliyonse, pamene inu mukonda inu kutaya mbali nokha, kugula chinachake kwa munthu wina. Izi ndi pafupi zofanana monga mchira wa buluzi, amene amalima kachiwiri. Tikuyankhula zokhudza moyo. Lililonse zinachitikira amatiphunzitsa chikondi, kuwulula mbali yatsopano ndi mithunzi ya chikondi bola ngati tilibe phunziro napeza chidaliro latsopano.

Chikondi si pa bwinja la moyo, ndipo pa mlingo mkulu

Kumafuna kulimba mtima ena kutsegula okha malingaliro atsopano, izo zimatipanga ife kukhala osatetezeka, tiyenera kukhulupirira munthu wina, msiyeni iye mu dziko kwawo komanso. Makamaka, ngati chikondi chichokera okalamba. Palibe munthu angathe zimatsimikizira chimwemwe ndi moyo wabwino. Ndife alendo m'moyo uno, ife tikhoza amayesetsa kukhala nthawi yathu ndinapatsidwa, ngati kuli kotheka zonse ndi osangalala mmene angathere.

Pamene inu n'kupuma fungo la maluwa kapena iwo monga mphatso, musaiwale kuti ali spikes, ndi kuyang'ana pa mnyamata, musaiwale zaka zingati anatenga inu kuphunzira kukonda ndi moyo. Onani dziko mwa maso a achinyamata ngati n'zotheka. Simungathe wamng'ono, koma ndi kotheka kotheratu kusangalala ndi moyo ndi okondedwa wanu, ndi kukhala moyo wosangalala pamodzi.