Nsalu ukwati

Nsalu ukwati kapena monga mwinamwake otchedwa, phula, chikondwerero zaka zinayi kukhala limodzi. Zikuoneka si chikumbutso, koma Komabe, kuyambira kale kwambiri ndi mu chikumbutso ichi koyamba amamvetsera osati ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, komanso kunyumba ndi moyo wa banja. Akukhulupirira kuti mwa izi ndi nthawi imeneyi banja kale anapeza ena chuma, ndi anathanso kupanga kwanu momasuka ndi kulandiridwa, ndi ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi akhala ngati kusintha ngati sera, ndi wolimba ngati fulakesi (kwa nsalu si kwambiri zodula komanso wamphamvu kwambiri kuposa nsalu). Mu phokoso la moyo mabanja ambiri chabe sangamvetsere kwa tsiku lino, kuchita izo mothamanga kapena ayi kukondwerera pa zonse, komabe, nsalu ukwati ali ndi mwambo ambirimbiri, lidakalipobe kuyambira m'masiku a Kievan Lazaro.

Mphatso ndi Zabwino wanu zaka ukwati 4 ayenera kutsatira "nsalu" gulu. Ngati ife kulankhula za miyambo ndi zikondwerero, mu masiku akale mu tsiku lino mkazi wake amayenera kupereka mwamuna wake anachititsa wake nsalu malaya ndi yokhotakhota nsalu nsalu ndi kusoka kwa bedi pepala lake banja. Izi chidafundidwa ndi pepala kamodzi kokha (pa chachinayi chikumbutso ukwati), ndiyeno kusungidwa kwa zaka zambiri monga heirloom banja. Godfather a mkwatibwi ayenera kupereka banja wamng'ono (kapena kani, mkazi wake) gudumu kupota kapena pachifuwa, ndi godmother - zinthu nsalu kapena zinthu panyumba, stitched ndi dzanja.

Kumene, masiku ano, miyambo izi penapake kusinthidwa - anthu ochepa mukudziwa momwe yokhotakhota lero, kupota mawilo a zofunikira pa nkhani wakhala kowonera zakale chidutswa, ndi kusoka mapepala panthawi imodzi anthu ochepa kwambiri kubwera ku malingaliro. Komabe, pali zambiri maganizo zimene mungapatse holide imeneyi ngati nsalu ukwati. Izi ndi mitundu yonse ya nsalu za patebulo, zopukutira m'manja zimapezeka, matawulo, zofunda, zovala, makatani ndi khungu zopangidwa ndi nsalu, zojambula, chojambulidwa pa nsalu nsalu kapena maluwa fulakesi mu mphika laling'ono, limene lidzakhala zodabwitsa chokongoletsera tebulo chikondwerero. mwambo wina chidwi kuti n'zotheka kusuntha masiku awa kukhetsa "fulakesi anakwatira" ndi zouma mbewu za fulakesi, wosakaniza ndi maswiti. Iwo angaone chidwi mwambo kuvala tebulo ziwerengero ku nyumba zimene ziyenera kusungidwa kwa chaka, ndi pa mwambo wa chikumbutso lachisanu la ukwati (amene amatchedwa ukwati matabwa) kuwotcha.

Ngati ife kulankhula za zaka zinayi chikumbutso cha moyo limodzi mphatso ndi Zabwino pa tsiku la ukwati angathe kugwirizana osati ndi nsalu, koma ndi phula themed. Mungaphunzitse akazi makandulo okongola ndi mankhwala njuchi (mwachitsanzo uchi, zimene ziyenera kukhala pa tebulo tchuthi), ndipo zosiyanasiyana zodzoladzola zopangidwa pamaziko a phula.

Panopa moni choyambirira ndi losaiwalika zaka 4 ukwati zokhudza mutu wa chikumbutso ichi, tingazindikire ndi nokha (ndipo si mwa mawonekedwe ndime - mizere kuchokera pansi pa mtima prose chonde ngwazi za mwambowo, chimodzimodzi), kapena kupeza chuma zosiyanasiyana (Internet, zopereka thematic ndi mabuku). Ndipo, mungathe kulamula kulemba Zabwino izi akatswiri olemba mwaluso uvyazhut mankhwala umodzi onse zosakaniza ndi kupanga lapadera, wapadera ndi cholinga chabe kwa banja limeneli.

Chotero, ngati munthu amakhulupirira kuti nsalu ukwati - uwu si moyo wa banja lidziwe gulu la holide losaiwalika, ali kwambiri kolakwika. Ndipotu, izi Chinthu chinanso mu ulendo wa akazi, amene amasonyeza kuti iwo achuluka apamtima ndipo ndaphunzira kuzindikira ndi kusamala ubale wawo, ndi kupereka mzake. Choncho, ndithu mwambo woyenera kuyala gome nsalu tablecloth, anagona Magulu a nyumba akuyatsa makandulo ndi kupanga tchuthi weniweni!