Non-wapakamwa njira kulankhulana ndi kufunika mu zokambirana za.

Communication - dera moyo wa munthu, popanda imene kuli anthu. Communication - si mawu m'kamwa kapena olembedwa. The ndondomeko kulankhulana tichipeza inakula zipani zitatu.

Choyamba, ndi kufala kwa mudziwe - kulankhula mbali.

Kachiwiri, ndi kuzindikira za interlocutor wa - kuzindikira mbali.

Chachitatu, mogwirizana ndi mnzake mu kulankhulana - zokambirana mbali.

Mwachangu zimatheka pogwiritsa ntchito malonda kulankhulana wapakamwa (mchitidwe) ndi kulankhulana si mawu.

Non-wapakamwa pothandiza anthu kuthandiza kusonyeza wokamba ndi sluschayuschemu kumvetsa tanthauzo lenileni la mfundo opatsirana. Mbali yofunika ya kulankhulana malonda ndi kutha kuzindikira njira sanali wapakamwa kulankhulana. The manja a interlocutor ndi, poona nkhope yake ndi kaimidwe kusonyeza osati tanthauzo la nkhani, komanso maganizo a okondedwa kwa nkhaniyo.

njira Non-wapakamwa kulankhulana yothandizana zambiri mawu. Gulu la njira sanali wapakamwa kulankhulana ambiri motere:

a) Kuwala-kinesthetic dongosolo zikuphatikizapo gulu kuti silipita munthu samazidziwa kapena interlocutor: nkhope, manja, kaimidwe polankhula, malo okhudza malo (ikuyenda);

b) paralinguistic system (kapena okolorechevaya) zikuphatikizapo njira imene gwero akutha uthenga wawo mawu: kamvekedwe ka mawu, phula, buku lomveka kumvera pa kulankhula, intonation.

c) dongosolo extralinguistic zikuphatikizapo njira sanali wapakamwa kulankhulana posonyeza boma maganizo ya woyankhula: mlingo wa kulankhula, kuseka, plyaach, kubuula, akulira ndi ena.

d) dongosolo kulankhulana zithunzi zikuphatikizapo pa mabwanawe maganizo.

e) dongosolo okhudza malo: malo ndi nthawi kulankhulana, lotha danga.

e) dongosolo kukhudzana limapangidwa kukumbatira chanza kupsompsona, kundisisita, kenaka utentha mamba ndi nkhani ina, chogwirika kanthu.

f) dongosolo olfactory - kugwiritsa ntchito fungo.

njira Non-wapakamwa kulankhulana ndi kobadwa nako ndi zinazake. manja ambiri, kaimidwe, kayendedwe nkhope amatha kumasulidwa njira zawo mu zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Kudziwa mmene interlocutors lachilendo kuzifotokoza mu njira popanda mawu n'komwe, kudzakuthandizani bwino ndi dzuwa la zokambirana malonda.

Kafukufuku chapadera kulankhulana sanali wapakamwa angatenge nthawi yaitali. Komabe, pali ena mfundo obschepriyatye kaŵirikaŵiri ntchito kugwedeza ndi manja. Mawonetseredwe maganizo abwino ndi vuto lokhala wosasangalala ife kugwira interlocutor mwachindunji, koma nthawi zina kovuta kusiyanitsa pakati negative.

Kufika manja pa chifuwa chake akanena kuti malo kumbuyo, kapena kupanda chidwi naye. M'malo mwake, thupi lotseguka, mapendekeredwe kwa interlocutor amatanthauza kukhulupirira ndi chidwi polankhulana.

Ngati interviewee akuyamba akonze zovala, kukokera tsitsi, opaka manja awo, zikuoneka kuti iye ankadera nkhawa, chosadalirika, mantha. Akusisita khutu - ndi chosadziwika, simungathe kupanga chisankho. Wokhudza nkhope limasonyeza mantha, chinyengo.

Chikhumbo kuthetsa nkhaniyo, kusaleza akuwonetseredwa mu ikulendewera mwendo, amapatutsidwa wake pansi. Pogogoda cholembera pa tebulo - chilakolako pakamwa mawu a woyimba lapansi.

Anatenga pa mpando akufotokoza osatetezeka, wovuta. Kulekerera kaimidwe pa mpando (atabvala lounging) angatanthauze ulesi kapena kudzikuza.

Kugwedeza - sakhulupirira zimene zinanenedwa. Iye nods mutu wake - anavomera, samagwirizana.

Manja akulumikizana mbali yofunika kwambiri. Nthawi zina ngakhale imperceptible manja kwambiri "kunena" za interlocutor lapansi. Mwachitsanzo, manja woonekeratu bwenzi imatiuza munthu kapena chinthu. Potsindika manja kulimbikitsa mawu, woonekeratu - kulongosola zinthu. manja Tangent kuthandiza kukumana, kukopa tcheru.