Mugone lotha mu timu - ndi Aliyense ayenera kudziwa

N'chifukwa chiyani anthu ngati kapena sindimakonda ntchito yanu? Monga ulamuliro, izo chikugwirizana ndi chidwi kapena uninteresting yeniyeni payekha payekha, udindo ntchito, milingo malipiro, kukhalapo kapena kusapezeka kwa mwayi kukula ndi zinthu zina kupanga. Koma palinso chinthu china chofunika kwambiri, zimene kwakukulukulu zimadalira chikondi kapena kudana kwa makamaka work- malo ubale lotha mu timu. Ndipo ngati muli ndi kusintha ntchito, ndi bwino kuyambira pa chiyambi kuyesa kumanga yachibadwa ubale lotha ndi anzake, chifukwa ndiye chinachake kudzakhala kovuta kukonza.

Kotero, momwe zinthu, kuti mogwirizana cigawo, kupambana ulemu ndi sanakanganepo? Ndithudi, izi si kusamvetsetsa kakang'ono, koma cha ukali kwambiri, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kwambiri kusokoneza kuona ntchito wokondedwa kwambiri.

Choyamba, ndi bwino ngati ndi asapita lotha mu gulu adzamanga chokoma Kuyankha ndi tcheru kwa wina ndi mzake. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuyambira tsiku loyamba la ntchito pa malo atsopano kuthamangira kusangalatsa aliyense, koma khalani ochenjera, kuyembekezera nthawi zonse kwa nsomba mwamsanga akuchitanji ndi mawu ndi ndemanga iliyonse, nayenso, ayenera kukhala. Khalidweli, chomwe nthawi zambiri yekha anachita zodzitetezera angathe kuonedwa ngati Akhristu chizolowezi nkhondo, chiyembekezo cha mtengo uliwonse kuima losonkhanitsidwa ndi safuna kusuntha kwambiri.

Choncho, pofuna kukhazikitsa ubale lotha mu timu, musakhale patali. Kumene, m'masiku oyamba pa malo atsopano a ntchito, ambiri okayikitsa ndithu, koma inu ayesetse limatulutsa mtima komanso kukhala omasuka kuti rapprochement a. Ngati anzake akupita chakudya kapena tiyi, ndi nzeru amanena chakuti muli ndi ntchito yambiri, chifukwa nthaŵi yosangalala chilengedwe poluneformalnoy ndipo nthawi yabwino pang'onopang'ono kukhazikitsa ndi malangizo ubale lotha mu timu. Tiyenera kukhala zamaganizo zabwino ndi kupeza mphamvu komanso kufooka kwa anthu timu koma osati kuima pa chochitika ukulu wake, koma kuti athe kupeza ngodya padziko lakuthwa ngati n'koyenera.

Kuti mwamsanga atengere malo atsopano ayenera kumvetsa mitundu ya maubwenzi lotha zimene zafala gulu. Ngati Gona ndi mfundo za authoritarianism, kudzikonda, kupsa mtima kapena kukayikirana, ndiye ntchito mu timu kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri. Koma ngakhale kovuta kuti apulumutse awo "Ine" osati adzatsika mlingo. Koma monga ulamuliro, ngakhale timu yabwino mungapeze antchito ochepa amene sindimakonda ntchito mu chikhalidwe opondereza, ndi kuti ali nawo, ndiye muyenera choyamba, kukhazikitsa ubale. Ngati ubale lotha mu mini-timu (ngakhale wopangidwa mwa anthu ochepa) adzakhala anthu, momasuka ndi ochezeka ntchito adzabweretsa zosangalatsa zambiri. Komanso, n'zotheka pang'onopang'ono enieni kugwiritsa kucuruka kwa inu ndi ogwira ntchito ena, ndi ubale Choncho lotha mu timu adzakhala zambiri zogwirizana.

Koma monga ulamuliro, poyamba, chirichonse sali woyipa, ndodo ndi anthu abwinobwino (ngakhale popanda ovuta kuwamvetsa ndi peculiarities - koma amene alibe?), Gona lotha mu timu pang'ono ndi pang'ono kuwongolera, ndi moyo ndi mbali ya njanji mpandawo. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri tsopano kuti zichitidwe - zilibe kuwononga ubwenzi alipo. Kuchita izi, osati mochuluka: kutsatira makhalidwe makampani, osati miseche kapena kukambirana ena anzake pa ena, musati muyesere kuchita yokha kwambiri tcheru mulimonse mmene zingakhalire ndipo musawaletse kutsanzira antchito munthu (ngakhale agwilitse malo apamwamba).

Koma ubale ndi anzake, sitingathe kuyiwala za ubale lotha m'banja. Kulankhula cose, ubale m'banja chofunika kwambiri kuposa ubwenzi ndi ntchito, chifukwa ntchito mu uzitsine, mungathe kusintha basi. kusintha banja zovuta, ndipo Sutha (ngati si za mkazi ndi ana). Choncho m'pofunika kuyesetsa kulimbikitsa ubale lotha m'banja, kotero kuti iwo mogwirizana ndi chifuniro chabwino, omasukirana, reciprocity, ndipo nthawi zina okoma. Timakhala ndi ana ayenera kuwonjezera mukanene aganizira authoritarianism, yeniyeni, zinachitikadi. Ndiyeno inu mwakwaniritsa chifukwa mochititsa chidwi, ndipo m'mawa liwiro ntchito mumaikonda, ndi liwiro madzulo kunyumba ankakonda!