Monga munthu asinkha, kapena chifukwa kukongola sikubweretsa chimwemwe

Feminists aliyense akhoza misonkhano za kusasiyana pakati, koma mfundo ndi yakuti pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi kusiyana kwakukulu. Ndipo iye si ngakhale kusiyana thupi, koma pa mlingo wa chikumbu mtima. Mkazi sadzamva kuganiza ngati munthu aganiza, ndi mosemphanitsa. Kwenikweni izi kukongola kwa chonse. Uyu adagwiridwa chisamaliro cha amayi Nature, kotero ubwino zikutsutsana ake? Apa zili ndi ubale pakati pa hemispheres ubongo. Pa kugonana fairer limasonyeza kwambiri pakati pawo, iwo amatha pokonza zambiri nthawi imodzi, koma kugonana mphamvu 'poyankha "mosavuta kukhazikitsa kugwirizana zomveka, mwamsanga akupanga chinthu chofunika si umasinthanitsidwa opanda pake.

Mudziwa ndikuganiza mwamuna, mkazi ayenera kukhala pofuna kupewa zoipa opanda pake. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti zinthu sangathe kumvetsa, osati chifukwa iye ndi chisoni osayanjanitsika, ndi zina zotero. D., Ndipo chifukwa ali ndi maganizo osiyana a dziko. Chitsanzo chachikulu tingachipeze powerenga: anamwazikana masokosi, mbale pa tebulo, kulephera kupeza chinthu chabwino mu chipinda. Odzichepetsa ndi Maphunziro Akakhalidwe Kazolengedwa mwathunthu akumeneko. Zinthu anabalalika chifukwa chakuti kuti "m'pamene m'gawo" kumatanthauza kuti: "Ine ndine bwana kuno." Chifukwa chomwecho, musati kutsuka mbale, osati achifumu choncho. A sangapeze chinthu chabwino mu chipinda, chifukwa ambiri mbali yomweyo agogoda naye bwino, ndi iye mwa iwo watayika.

Wina zothandiza kudziwa kuti ndi momwe munthu amawonekera za akazi. M'pofunika kuona kusiyana pakati pa mmene madona eni okha, ndi mmene zikugwirizanirana ndi Cavaliers. akazi onse akufuna kukwaniritsa muyezo wina wa kukongola kuti alipo panthawi anthu a. Zotsatirazi mawonekedwe ndi kupita kwambiri nsembe, kugonana ofooka naively amakhulupirira kuti yomweyo kanthu kugonana wamphamvu. Koma chinthu oseketsa n'chakuti mpheto anthu pofuna osaganizira. Ndikuganiza ngati munthu, ndiye mudzaona mmene zinali zolakwika. Amaonera fano wonse. Ndipo ngati mkazi amakonda, kapena iye mu chikondi ndi iye, iye samasamala chimene iye amavala, zimene hairstyle ake. Iwo likukhalira kuti akazi amacheza nthawi ndi ndalama, osati kwa anthu, koma chifukwa cha amakonda, kuti akhale kudzidalira, zomwe, poyamba ndi zofunika kwambiri, koma popanda zotentheka, chonde.

Opinion cha kukongola ndi sizoonekeratu. Pa nthawi, chinthu chimodzi - muyezo maonekedwe socialite kale mumangonyong'onyeka. Kuyambira pano malamulo a macroeconomics: buku lalikulu cha maganizo nthawi zonse Sachita mtengo wa mankhwala yokha. Makamaka tsopano kuti kukongola - si mphatso za chilengedwe, ndi luso dotolo, wokongoletsa ndi kukula kwa ndalama. Monga munthu asinkha-sinkha nkhani iyi? "Iwo onse ali ofanana!" Amayamikiranso mkazi, osati monga munthu koma monga zowonjezerazo ufulu "Mercedes" kapena ulonda mtengo. Ichi ndi chibwana kuganiza kuti ndalama akhoza m'malo maganizo. Ambiri mwa atsikana pamene iwo amayiwala kuti maonekedwe a chuma ndipo musatope kumverera kwa chimwemwe. Ndipo posapita nthawi, kupanda mkati adzakhala ndi gwero. Ngati kapena ayi, koma chikhalidwe si kupusitsidwa ndi tsogolo kwambiri. Kodi kulipira zonse.

Tip: Ganizirani ngati munthu, zinthu ngati mkazi. Mukhoza kupanga ntchito zodabwitsa kupeza ndi ohmurit "Papic" kuti abwere ndi kugwira ntchito zochuluka chimachititsanso ochenjera ndi kusangalala ukulu wawo. Ndipo inu mukhoza kungokhala nokha, ndi wokondedwa, banja komanso wosangalala. Kusankha nthawi zonse.