Monga momwe buku lotolo limanenera: msewu ndi chenjezo, ndipo chikwama chachikulu ndi cha mimba

Maloto amene ogona amadziona ngati woyendayenda nthawi zambiri amayendera anthu a misinkhu yonse. Kuwonjezera apo, malotowa akhoza ngakhale kulota zosafunika, pogona, kapena anthu okalamba, omwe amachotsa malingaliro omwe malotowa anali okhudzana ndi zomwe anakumana nazo. Mwinamwake, monga momwe buku lotolo likusonyezera, msewu ndi chenjezo.

Kawirikawiri maloto amenewa amachenjeza kuti posachedwa pangakhale mavuto omwe angakhale ovuta kuthetsa. Ndipo momwemonso buku lotolo la maloto limamasulira: msewu, mwinamwake, umasonyeza kuti posachedwapa munthu akhoza kukhala ndi chikhumbo chosintha njira ya moyo wake.

Maulosiwa amasiyana mosiyana ndi omwe amayenda osati phazi, koma ndi njanji. Ngati munthu alota njanji, buku lotolo limachenjeza kuti kukayikira ndi chitetezo chokhudzana ndi kugonana n'zotheka. Choncho, munthu sayenera kuyembekezera kuti mavutowa ayang'ane ndi munthu mu kukula kwathunthu, koma nthawi yomweyo ayang'anitseni thanzi lawo, khalidwe lawo ndi malingaliro awo kwa wokondedwa wawo.

Ngati munthu wokonda mwiniwakeyo amadziona kuti sakuchita zinthu mofatsa komanso mwachidwi kwa wokondedwa wake, sizidzakhala zovuta kuthetsa vutoli. Ndi nkhani ina ngati ayamba kuchita mogwirizana ndi zofuna zake, kudalira njira yothetsera maloto. Zotsatira za khalidwe lotere silinganenedweratu.

Komabe, molingana ndi Freud, maloto omwe munthu amayenda sayenera kumasuliridwa mu mawonekedwe a truncated, otchedwa "wangwiro" mawonekedwe. Apa ntchito yofunika kwambiri imasewera ndi chilengedwe, chilengedwe, "dongosolo lachiwiri" la kugona komanso "lachitatu". Mwachitsanzo, ulendo wozunguliridwa ndi abwenzi abwino kapena agalu odzipereka (agalu mumaloto - chizindikiro cha abwenzi apamtima ndi okhulupirika) - mwayi ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa nyumba, kusuntha pa malo osadziwika - malonda atsopano ndi malonda omwe angapangitse mavuto ambiri.

Panjira ya sitimayo, kayendetsedwe kake kamene kali pamzerewu, kuyendetsa ogona, akhoza kutanthauzidwa ngati mayesero ovuta, ntchito yolemetsa, kuthana ndi zopinga. Ndiponso, osati zabwino kwambiri zimalosera maloto, ngati mmenemo munthu achoka panjira. Izi zikhoza kutanthauza kuti posachedwa adzalakwitsa, zomwe adzayenera kulipira. Pangakhale phindu la ndalama.

Ngakhale zimakondweretsa bukhu la amayi lotolo: msewu m'maloto kwa mtsikana amatanthawuza kusintha kosangalatsa, misonkhano ndi chikondi chatsopano! N'chiyani chingakhale bwino? Komanso maloto abwino ndi loto limene munthu amayendayenda mumsewu, komwe mitengo yakale imakula, maluwa okongola amakula. Ndikuneneratu za mwayi wosayembekezereka, mwinamwake komanso chikondi. Mwachibadwa, kuyimba mbalame ndi agulugufe okongola paulendo ukusowetsa nthawi yabwino komanso yosangalatsa m'moyo weniweni.

Koma kaŵirikaŵiri amachitira maloto buku: msewu mu loto - kuyenda moona. Funso lokhalo ndilo, kodi njira iyi, yomwe iyenera kuchitidwa moona, yokondweretsa, yokha, kapena yomwe imaperekedwa kuchokera kunja ndi zovuta? Choncho ndi kofunikira kuti mumvetsetse zoona, ndi zinthu ziti zomwe munasonkhanitsa pa ulendo wanu? Ndiwo omwe angasonyeze mtundu wa kusintha zomwe ziyenera kuchitika pamapeto a munthu yemwe adziwona yekha pamsewu kapena akungoyang'ana njirayo.

Freud amapereka chidwi kwambiri pa dongosolo "lachitatu" la kugona. Ndipotu, monga momwe bukuli likusonyezera , kusonkhanitsa zinthu pamsewu kumasonyeza kale kuti pali chisangalalo mu moyo wa munthu, kubweretsa zotsatira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu ayeneranso kufulumira pamoyo weniweni, monga momwe akulota. Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa munthu chingaphunzire kuchokera mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe ogona amasonkhanitsa panjira yake. Ngati akupeza katundu wolemetsa komanso wolemetsa akagona, izi zingatanthauze kuti kwenikweni munthu amakhala ndi vuto lalikulu la kusakanikirana m'moyo wake. Ndipo nthawi zina, zikwama zam'chikwama komanso masutukesi amaimira ziwalo zoberekera za mkazi. Ngakhale olemera ambiri amalingalira zochitika za mwanayo kuti akhale ndi lingaliro lofunikira kapena zolinga zazikulu za m'tsogolo.