Kusungulumwa ndi Chikondi - mkati ndi kunja.

"Mwina .. zonse m'moyo uno pamene chinachake chimabwera lidzatha, ngakhale lomveka, koma pafupi. Ndipo si chinachake nkhani .. Mu chomwecho," gulu la "kumenya, ndi kuleza mtima, ndipo kudaliridwa ndi ulemu. pali malire, ndi chirichonse chiri ndi mapeto. inu sayenera kuiwala ichi, chifukwa mu kamphindi inu akhoza kutaya zonse. ochokera ndi. Koma chinthu chokha yotsala neizmennym- ndi chikondi. chikondi banja ndi okondedwa. zomwe ife tiri nazo mphatso, "mphatso", ndipo kuti n'zosatheka zoona, oyenera. zimenezo, ndipo tiyenera kusamala. ndipo wotsalawo .. enawo ali anapeza chisomo kunyumba kuti kale "(c) D.Summers.

Munthu aliyense kamodzi pakubwera nthawi imene mwadzidzidzi takumana ndi chodabwitsa cha "kusungulumwa". Osati kanthu kuti mawu aikidwa mu zizindikiro ogwidwawo chifukwa akuti ndi pamafunika kuwafotokoza. Panopa, mwina adzachita ..

1. "Ndilibe zambiri mabwenzi apamtima amene ndingathe pootkrovennichat. Choncho payekha - zina kwambiri woyenera interlocutor »© Angelina Kodi inu Dzholi.Dumaesh bwino? Inde, mwina. Ndipo, monga momwe mukuonera, muli kumbali. Pali zifukwa zambiri zimene anthu mwadzidzidzi nokha. Ndipo si nthawi zonse vuto awo. Ine ndikanati kwambiri, si nthawi zonse vuto zonse munthu. Nthawi zina munthu basi ayenera kukhala payekha nokha, kumvetsa kuti intra- zimene palibe ena sangathe kuwona ndi kumva. Ena icho mumaona mopusa, vanila, nyengo ya "kudziletsa kutsirikidwa" pamene mukhoza sangamvetse chilichonse, koma wapeza uyenderere kudzimvera chisoni ndi moyo wake ankati analephera. Hmm. Mwina munthu amene amaganiza choncho, chinachake. Yekha naye sindikufuna zonse amakhala oona mtima chifukwa sankayembekezera zimene zikuchitika. Osati aliyense ali mphamvu kukokera yekha pamodzi ndi nkuganiza chochita lotsatira. M'malo mwake, munthu plunges mu mikwingwirima wakuda wa moyo, ndipo mwadzidzidzi zonse atayika pa maziko awo. Koma pali gulu lina la anthu, sichoncho? Iwo zafala monga moyenera. Sindidzakondwanso wodzichepetsa, inemwini, ine kuvomereza kuti iwo. Koma ndiroleni ine ina. Apitirizebe Moyenera .. Kodi kusiyana mwachindunji kwa mauthunthu zilizonse sachedwa "alimbane" maganizo? Iwo, mwachitsanzo mosiyana, ndi bwino chimodzimodzi basi ndipo ikusonyeza mawuwo, kuchiyambi kwa ndime anatchula. Sindidzamwanso kutsanzira, koma m'malo monga amathera angapo kufanana ndi mfundo. Monga inu mwina anazindikira, anthu moyenera ndi osiyana worldview yapita ndi maganizo ku chenicheni. Ndipotu, anthu amene amafuna osati kuyang'ana moyo mwa maso a weniweni, komanso kuti chinthu chabwino mu chirichonse - mu mawu ena chinthu chovuta kwambiri kuti maganizo a munthu chimatsogoleredwa, koma pa nthawi yomweyo nkofunika kwa iwo. Pano pali chododometsa wa moyo. "Izitu n'zovutitsa wa Choikidwiratu", titero. [...]
2. "Munthu ukakhala - chinthu choyipa chomwe chingabweretse munthu. Zilibe kanthu munthuyo: munthu wosauka kapena munthu wolemera, kapena simpleton mochenjera, kupusitsa kapena mwapang'ono. Kusungulumwa si kugogoda ndi kuyembekezera iye kutsegulira, iye ali ndi mafungulo ku zitseko ... »© Parfyumer.Nu nanga amagwira izi? Ndi mawu amenewa, ine ndikuganiza, angavomereze basi ambiri chomwecho. Chifukwa chiyani? Ine sindikuganiza kuti adzapanga kuwaza, pamene ine ndikunena kuti anthu imakonzedwa zozizwitsa obrazom- iwo sakhala ndi moyo yekha. Posowa angapo mtundu wawo wa moyo wa munthu umayenda bwino mu chinachake inoe- kukhalapo. Ndipotu kusiyana ndi chidwi, sichoncho? Panokha wabwino moyo kapena kukhalapo kwa inu? Ndine kuposa kuonetsetsa kuti njira yoyamba kuti zigwirizane mwamtheradi onse anthu oyenerera. Popeza tikudziwa kale mbendera kapena umboni, chotero chodabwitsa monga "algophilia". Ndipo ichi si pachipata aliyense .. chisoni. Choncho kusungulumwa wathu. Kodi bwino mwaona slovah- pamwamba (kusungulumwa) sasankha ngakhale anthu kapena nthawi imene iye akadayenera kuti "kudzali". Pamaso lingaliro limeneli onse ndi ofanana. Monga pamaso chikondi. Ndipotu, chikondi komanso kusankha amene 'kudza', sichoncho? Palibe angatsutse mfundo yakuti kukonda ndi kukondedwa akhoza mwamtheradi aliyense. Ngakhale anthu amene yaing'ono, mwakuwoneka, kusiyana DNA ndi (anthu odziwa pang'ono ndi zamoyo kapena thunthu sukulu zaka, adzamvetsa wotani kusiyana ndi gulu la anthu ndikulankhula za) - iwo ndiwo angathe wachikondi. Koma pa nthawi yomweyo iwo amakonda kusungulumwa .. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe chilungamo kapena mokondera kwa ife tonse si kazalos- ndi moyo wathu. Zonse chofunika kwa ife - ndi kutenga limeneli icho chiri. Kapena ngakhale bwino.

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Koma tsopano ku khwalala limodzi zoona, tinayamba povestvovanie.Deystvitelno wathu, moyo ndi chidwi kwambiri chinthu, ngakhale yodabwitsa kwambiri .. koma palibe amatenga tiwonana ake, sichoncho? Kumene ayi. Chifukwa, ine ndikuganiza, kulankhula ambiri Sikuti. Ndipo ngakhale kuti ife nthawi zambiri ndi chinthu kunena tiwonana, kusiya, mwataya chinachake mnzake kukumbukira kuti kuchita zimenezi ndi "moyo." Pamafunikanso zosiyanasiyana zigawo zikuluzikulu, popanda zomwe zingakhale mosaneneka wotopetsa ndipo uninteresting. zigawo izi ndi ndendende: akupeza ndi zomvetsa, ndi chimwemwe ndi chisoni, misonkhano ndi malekano, mkwiyo ndi kukhululuka, kupsa mtima, kuleza mtima, chidani ndi chikondi, amene sakhoza udachita, koma zonse likhalebe; amene angathe kupezeka, koma osati kumupatsa; omwe si zokwanira, koma nthawi zonse noticeable pamene kosowa; amene nthawi zonse mu mitima yathu ndi mu mitima ya iwo amene tili kwambiri. Chifukwa cha moyo uno choyenera kukhalira moyo.