Kodi kulabadira kuthekera ndi?

Kodi kutamanda zambiri? Ndipo kodi anachita wanu? Nthawi zina munthu sadziwa kuchita zinthu zochitika zofanana, momwe kuyankha kuthekera a. Si aliyense amene angachite mwachifatse ndi ulemu kumvera. Ndipo nthawi likukhalira kuti talephera chimwemwe matamando ndi zabwino mawu adiresi wake, ndi gwero ndi kukhumudwa.

Kuthokoza akhoza akamagwira ogwira nawo, ndi kwa anzanu ndiponso alendo. Pokambirana, nthawi zonse kuwayankha. The kuchotserapo okha milandu munthu zosasangalatsa kwa inu, ndipo simufuna kulankhula naye. Chonchi zinthu amaloledwa kunyalanyaza zimene anamva.

Kodi kulabadira kuthekera kwa munthu?

Pali zifukwa zingapo kuti kuteteza mokwanira kuyankha kutamanda ndi sangalalani:

1. munthu aganiza kuti iwo akuyesera kuti kusintha mu njira iyi.

2. Iye alibe chidwi ndi maganizo a munthu amene complimented.

3. munthu akuganiza kuti izo kugwirizana ndi ena maudindo.

4. Iye akukhulupirira kuti si woyenera kutamandidwa.

5. Pomaliza, munthu chabe sakonda kukhala adzitengere ulamuliro wa.

Ngati bwino kuyankha matamando, kudzakhala kuli pa nthawi. Choncho n'kofunika kudziwa momwe kuyankha kuthekera mu nkhani ina. Inu simusowa kuti mukupanga. Kawirikawiri mawu akuti "zikomo" ndi kumwetulira udzakhala wokwanira. Tikhoza kunena mawu abwino poyankha. Palibe sizipanga zifukwa ndi kupita mwatsatanetsatane. Kulibiretu kufunika kukuuzani chipani ena kuti kavalidwe wokongola anagula pa malonda kapena kujambula zovuta zonse kupeza ake. Izi mwatsatanetsatane owonjezera. Koma mawu akuti "palibe wapadera", "osati kotero ine ndi mmene zimakhalira," "Ine sindikuganiza chomwecho," kuyankhula za wanu kudziyang'anira, iye salola kuti kusangalala ndi chimwemwe chodzaza ndi matamando.

Nkofunika kudziwa mmene kulabadira kuthekera, komanso kake. Kuyambira pokweza maluso zimatengera kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, ngati tsiku udzachitike kachiwiri. anthu amanyazi satha kutchula kumuyamikira amapatsa Lovelace akazi onse pa mzere (popanda kudzipereka). Palibe mmodzi kapena ena sikusankha. Wabwinodi oona kuthekera - si kusinjirira, koma munthu chidaliro.

Ngakhale koposa zonse akhoza kukhala wosasangalala, ngati inu overdo izo. Choncho, pali chinthu chofunika, komanso nzeru komanso ulemu, chifukwa tisaiwale kuti mukhoza eni zosafunikira zosayenera mawu kusokoneza anthu.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku, pafupifupi akazi onse kuzindikira Kuthokoza luso lawo seamlessly kuphatikiza tione ndi zapakhomo ndi ntchito, komanso kukhala n'zosadabwitsa wokongola ndi achinyamata. Malinga ndi madona, imfa ya kulankhula kuchokera kukongola - ndi chiyamiko bwino. Koma kumuyamikira wokongola kwambiri ndi kafungo chikondi si onse kosangalatsa. akazi ambiri kupeza chawo chololera kutumikira.

Tonse amafuna mawu odekha, amathandiza kumva chidwi ndi chidwi kwa iye, adzatithandiza chidaliro.

Pangani moona wokongola, waufulu, wosakhwima ndi kaso kuthekera - ndi luso. Koma chofunika kwambiri - kunena mawu abwino kuchokera mu mtima, ndipo zimene - si wofunika kwambiri!