Dagestani ukwati

Kodi ukwati mmodzi wa mtengo kwambiri? Ngati mulibe kuganizira zambiri phokoso ndi woonekeratu ukwati nyenyezi, yankho ndi lodziwikiratu: Dagestani ukwati. Mu Dagestan, dera chochitika sanali wotchipa. Dipo mkwatibwi (chabe - mkwatibwi mtengo), - dontho mu nyanja ya ndalama mkwatibwi makolo. Ndipo makolo a mkwatibwi zambiri osati utsalira. Koma mfundo apa si mu ndalama okwana, ndi kuti ukwati Dagestani ndi ankaimba kawiri. Kamodzi mkwati, chabwino, wachiwiri - Mkwatibwi. Komanso mwapadera, akazi, kupita yekha, "anayenda" ukwati wawo ndi amuna (komanso kupita padera) - chawo, koma kwina. Ndiyeno, mu nthawi, anayesedwa, anzake a mkwati anabwera ku ukwati mkazi, pamene mkwati ndi anawatenga.

Inu amuna a Dagestani ukwati - zosiyana lamulo. Kawirikawiri pa ukwati ati anthu oposa zana. Pa "pafupifupi" ukwati - za anthu mazana asanu ndi dzanja limodzi lokha. Miyambo akulemekezedwa la Dagestan zikuphatikizapo alendo. Aliyense mlendo ayenera kudyetsedwa ndi madzi. A ukwati mu Caucasus nthawizonse zakhala zing'onozing'ono koma kaso gome. Ndipo olemera, ine ndiyenera kunena. Kodi ndinene - magome mu Caucasus amatha kubisa.

Koma Dagestani ukwati si zosangalatsa lambiri alendo. Kwenikweni, osati izo. Imodzi mwa ndondomeko zovuta kwambiri ndi yaitali - kusonkhanitsa malowolo. Mwachibadwa, makolo kuphika Kuyambira mwana wamkazi mwana. Ndipo tsopano ayenera kupereka wokondedwa wamkazi zipangizo, mipando, makalapeti, zovala. Apo ayi, anthu kenako amukane. Mkwati (makolo mkwati) kuphika nyumba, Izi zidzapangitsa achinyamata mkazi, ndi mtengo mkwatibwi.

Koma sizinali mpaka ukwati Dagestani sichikwiya msika relsy.Traditsiya sadakonzeke, koma pafupi kuti. Today pa ukwati Dagestani ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kukhala pamodzi, mbali ndi mbali, patebulo chomwecho. A ukwati awiri (oseketsa koma zoona) akadali kupitiriza kusewera.

Malinga ndi mwambo umachitikira pamaso chinkhoswe ukwati, zomwe amati ayenera kuyesa maganizo a banja m'tsogolo ndi maganizo awo wamba. Pa mwambo chisanadze ukwati mwalamulo analengeza angapo mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Pa nthawi yomweyo zoikika ndi tsiku ukwati, zina zabwino ndi ziti. Chibwenzi mwambo anachita matchmakers. Daryatsya mkwatibwi mphatso, ntchito kuuzenga kuti kaundula, ndi nkhawa chisanadze ukwati kuyamba.

Pambuyo kaundula wa nthunzi kupita mzikiti, amene unachitikira mwambo wina, kapena kani, ukwati ndi Sharia (ichi, mwinamwake, angayerekezedwe ndi ukwati Orthodox). Pambuyo pa mwambo mumzikiti wa ukwati ulendo wake wopita ku malo chikumbutso cha kumangidwa kwa maluwa, ndipo pambuyo - zimatumizidwa ku holo chokongoletsedwa ndi matebulo yokutidwa kukondwerera chochitika chachikulu mu moyo wa onse.

Ukwati akuyamba ndi kulambira bambo ndi mayi. Young uta ndi zikomo chifukwa cha zonse zimene makolo awo anawapatsa. A uta otsika pa Dagestani, monga ambiri, ndi ulemu, chikondi, kulemekeza, ndithudi, kwa makolo udindo.

Pakuti magome ndi wowolowa manja mbale Caucasus dziko zinkamveka Tilandire choyamba, nthabwala zabwino, kenako amayamba ndi kuvina. Tsiku lomwelo achinyamata kulandira mphatso kuchokera alendo, kusonyeza tsiku pamene mphatso izi zikhoza anatsegula. Childs mu alikuika zopereka makadi ndi zofuna ambiri.

Ukwati umatha usiku kapena usiku, ndipo banja lonse anapita kunyumba mkwati. Apa ndi pamene sakutchula wokongola kwambiri ndi kowala mphindi zokwanira Dagestani ukwati mtengo: kulowa mkwatibwi wa m'nyumba yake yatsopano, nyumba ya mkwatibwi, ndipo tsopano - nyumba mwamuna wake: awiri anagwa mtedza, ndalama, maswiti. Mwambo limaimira zofuna choyambirira cha zodyetsedwa bwino, wabwino ndi wokoma moyo. Tsiku lotsatira (kapena ena anasankha) chikondwerero akupitiriza.

Popeza kuchuluka, monga inu mukudziwa, ambiri Dagestani ukwati "amachotsa ndalama zambiri" ndi maziro asanu. Kumene, masiku awa, ine ndikufuna kwamuyaya. Ndi ukwati ndi zambiri kamodzi kokha ...