Zikondwerero ndizo zomwe Akhristu ayenera kuzipewa

Nkhaniyi sidzakhala yothandiza kwa okhulupirira a Orthodox okha, komanso kwa iwo amene akufuna kusintha miyoyo yawo kuti ikhale yabwino. Tiyeni tiyankhule za zomwe zilibe kanthu, zomwe zimavulaza anthu. Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta ndi anthu, zomwe zimasokonekera kapena zosakhutira? Zikondwerero ndizo chifukwa cha mavuto ambiri, zonse za uzimu ndi zakuthupi, zakuthupi ndi zamakhalidwe.

Kodi mawu awa ndi ati?

Mu Orthodoxy, mautumikiwa makamaka a Slavic a Tchalitchi, Uthenga Wabwino, ndi Masalimo amawerengedwanso pa izo. Ndicho chifukwa chake mumamva mawu osadziwika, monga kulankhula osalankhula, mwachitsanzo. Tiyeni tiwone chomwe mawu awa akutanthauza.

Chikondwererochi ndi mawu opanda kanthu omwe alibe chidziwitso chilichonse, miseche, malingaliro a moyo wa munthu wina, miseche, ndi kukonda. Zikuwoneka ngati mawu amodzi, koma amatanthawuza zochita zambiri, ndi zoipa.

Wansembe amakono akunena kuti kulankhula mopanda pake kungathe kunyamula mapulogalamu opanda pake pa TV (mwachitsanzo, "Dom-2", "Comedy Club", "Smehopanorama" ndi zina zotero). Pa wailesi nthawi zambiri mumamva mawu a wokamba nkhani, m'mawu omwe palibe mfundo zothandiza. Maseŵera a mpira ndi masewera ena a masewera, kumene wolemba mapeto osatha amanena osati za othamanga chabe, zochitika pa masewera, ndiye, mwatsoka, izi zimagwiranso ntchito kuzinyoza.

About Theodore Wodala

Pali nkhani yoona yokhudzana ndi Theodora wodalitsika. Pamene iye anafa, ndiye, monga miyoyo yonse ya omwe anangoyamba kumene, iye anapita kwa Mulungu kupyolera mu mavuto. Ndi chiyani? Kuzunzidwa ndi mayeso a moyo, kumene ziwanda zimatsutsa machimo onse. Pali mitundu 20. Mmodzi wa iwo, vuto loyambirira chabe, ndikulankhula mopanda pake. Pafupifupi tonsefe tiri ndi tchimo ili.

Kawirikawiri, khalidwe ngati taciturnity ndi yabwino kwa Mkhristu. Koma pali chikhalidwe. Izi zikhoza kukhala khalidwe losavuta kapena kukhala ndi cholinga kuti musachimwe ndi choipa kapena mawu opanda pake. Izi ndi zolinga zosiyana, zolinga.

Tiyeni tibwerere kwa Theodore wodala. Pamene adayandikira vuto loyamba ndi angelo, anamva phokoso, chisangalalo chopanda malire, moyo wozizira kwambiri, kukhumudwitsa makutu. Ziwandazo zinadumphira pafupi, ndipo zinanenedwa kosatha, zinaseka. Mmodzi wa iwo anaima pamaso pa Theodora, adafutukula pepala ndipo anayamba kuwerenga machimo ake, okhudzana ndi kuseka kosalekeza, kulankhula, kuimba nyimbo ndi nyimbo. Kuchokera ku mbiri yeniyeni iyi yomwe munthu amatha kumvetsa kuti vutoli ndi lotani.

Osalankhulana ndi anzanu!

Kawirikawiri mukhoza, poyendayenda pabwalo, mverani zokambirana za amayi apakhomo ndi agogo aakazi, atsikana. Kodi akukamba za chiyani? Inde, chirichonse, koma osati zinthu zothandiza. Kawirikawiri bwalo lonse limadziwa zomwe zimachitika mwa munthu uyu kapena munthuyo. Mwachitsanzo, mnansi wanu ali ndi vuto m'banja. Bwalo lonselo likudziwa kale za izi, ndipo pali zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimatchulidwa, ndikulemba chifukwa cha vutoli. Winawake amayamba ngakhale kudana naye, osadziwa chomwe chimapangitsa nkhaniyo.

Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti mavuto a anthu ena sayenera kuganizira aliyense. Ngati pali chilakolako chothandizira munthu, ndiye kuti simusowa kuuza aliyense za izi. Ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri kukambirana ndi munthu zomwe ali nazo. Pita ndi miseche. Ndi bwino kumuthandiza wodwalayo mofatsa kusiyana ndi kukambirana zazochita ndi anzako.

Nthawi zambiri ansembe amanena ulaliki wokhudza tchimo la kulankhula mopanda pake, kudalira mawu a Yesu Khristu mu Uthenga Wabwino: "Mau anu adzatsutsidwa." Kodi kutanthauzanji apa? Chimo cha kulankhula mopanda pake chimasokonezedwa kotero kuti munthu sawona mzere pakati pa "zabwino" ndi "zoipa", iye samaziwona mwa mawu ake. Inde, amadziwa kuti ndi bwino kulumbira molakwika, kutchula wina woipa, kunama. Koma kuti kupsyinjika ndi tchimo, sindikuganiza. Choncho, makolo oyera ndi atumiki a tchalitchi amaphunzitsa kuti azikhala osamala pa zokambirana zosafunika.

Kulankhulana ndi achibale

Nanga bwanji achibale anu? Ndipotu, muyenera kulankhula. Tchalitchi sichiletsa kukambirana, kukambirana. Koma muyenera kudziwa chiyeso. Yerekezerani mfundo ziwiri: "Kodi thanzi lanu liri bwanji? Mwinamwake mukhoza kuthandiza pakhomo? "Ndipo" Moni, muli bwanji? ". Poyambirira, funsolo limafunsidwa mwachidwi. Iwo ali ndi chidwi ndi thanzi, kuthandizira, kusangalala, kutumikira mosasangalatsa. Njira yachiwiri, monga lamulo, sanyamula katundu wa semantic. Funsani funso ili mosadalirika. Kodi kawirikawiri zimachitika bwanji funso la momwe zinthu zilili? Kambiranani kopanda kanthu.

Ndi anthu achibadwidwe, muyenera kuyankhula, kupeza momwe tsikuli linayendera, chatsopano, momwe mumamvera, ndi zina zotero. Zikondwerero ndi nthawi yokambirana ndi miseche. Koma kawirikawiri zokambirana za thanzi, maganizo sali tchimo. Pambuyo pa zonse, Ambuye mwiniwake anawuza m'banja kuti alankhulane wina ndi mzake, kuthandizira ndi mawu, kutonthoza. Banja limakhala likulankhulana.

Kodi mungapewe bwanji?

Mwachiwonekere, kulankhula mopanda pake ndi tchimo. Kodi mungapewe bwanji? Inde, musayambe kukambirana ndi anthu, ngati siziri zokhudza zinthu zofunika. Uthenga umaphunzitsa kuti anthu mwachidule ndikungoyankha mafunso.

Kodi ntchito ya mphunzitsi, mphunzitsi, ndi tchimo la kulankhula mopanda pake? Ngati mphunzitsi akulankhula payekha, amauza milandu yowona komanso yolangiza, ndiye palibe tchimo. Koma ntchito ya wofotokozera si wopembedza. Inu mukhoza kunena kuti TV, wailesi - nthawi ya tchimo.

Tsoka ilo, pafupifupi mafilimu onse ndi osalankhula. Kawirikawiri mungamve chinachake cholangiza, chothandiza.

"Kukhala chete ndi golide" - aliyense amadziwa mawu anzeru. Ndipo iye anawonekera pa chifukwa. Tiyenera kutsata kuti tisachimwe.

Kuvomereza

N'zachidziwikire kuti kusaganizira mu Orthodoxy kumaonedwa ngati tchimo. Kotero, ngati mwachita ndi mawu opanda pake, ndiye kuti muyenera kuvomereza kwa wansembe, pemphani Ambuye kuti akhululukidwe. Ndi zochitika zotani zomwe zikugwirizana ndi tchimo ili:

• Kwa nthawi yayitali analankhula ndi bwenzi za chirichonse;
• Anakambirana ndi oyandikana nawo wa amodzi a nyumbayo;
• Kuimba nyimbo ndi nyimbo zoipa;
• Anayamika, akukambirana za kusalankhula kwa munthu;
• Ananyoza wina kumbuyo kwawo;
• Wodandauliridwa ndi nyengo yoipa, mkulu woopsa, wogwira ntchito mosanyalanyaza;
• Iwo ankalankhula mwaulemu kwa winawake.

Mukhoza kulemba kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu, ansembe amavomereza pa kuvomereza kuti ayankhule mwachidule za machimo, ndipo osayankha kuti: "Ndinachimwa mwa kulankhula mopanda pake." Izi sizikutanthauza kuvomereza, koma mtundu wa malipoti.

Kodi mukudziwa pamene munthu ali bwino? Akakhala chete, sakonda kulankhula, miseche ndi miseche. M'mabuku ochuluka a Orthodox pali ulaliki wonena za kukhala wosasamala monga wotsutsana kwambiri wauzimu. Chilichonse chimadalira munthu mwiniyo, zochita zake.