Ndikuyamikira mwamuna wake wakale pa tsiku lake lobadwa

Sizingatheke kukhala ndi munthu moyo wake wonse ndikukhala paubwenzi wabwino. Kusudzulana pakati pa okwatirana sikukutanthauza kuthetsa maubwenzi onse. Kulankhulana pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndizojambula bwino. Ngati mwamunayo ndi mkazi wake adatha kupambana ndi chiyesochi, akupitiriza kuyamika pa nthawi ya tchuthi, kufunsana pazinthu zambiri ndikungokhalira kuiwala zinthu zabwino zomwe anali nazo pamoyo wawo. Kodi mungaganize bwanji kuyamika bwino mwamuna wanu wakale pa tsiku lanu lobadwa?

Mawu ofunda kwa mwamuna wakale

Zili bwino bwanji kulembetsa mawu oyamikila ndi mawu omwe angatenge pa holideyi. Ziribe kanthu chomwe kuyamikirika kudzakhala pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa mwamuna wakale kuchokera kwa mkazi wakale-mu chiwonetsero kapena mu vesi, ndikofunikira kuti auzidwe kuchokera mumtima. Zovuta pamoyo wanu panalibe nthawi yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa. Kutenga mawu ofunikira, nkoyenera kukumbukira iwo ndi kuyamikira kuyamikira kwanu.

• "Inu mudzathera tsiku lobadwali popanda ine, koma ndikukhumba inu mukondane ndi kumvetsetsa ndi mkazi wanu watsopano." Mulole zikumbutso zabwino ndi zabwino zokhudzana ndi moyo wathu pamodzi zikhalebe kukumbukira kwanu. "
• "Timakondwerera holideyi osati pamodzi, koma kumbukirani, ndikukuthokozani chifukwa cha masiku omwe mwakhala pamodzi."

Mutha kutenga mawu omwe simunawauze mwamuna wanu wakale. Tsiku lobadwa lachimwemwe mungathe kuyamika ndi foni kapena kujambula lokongola positi ndikutumiza ndi makalata.

Ndiyamikiridwe mwachidwi

Malemba othokoza sangakhale ovuta kwambiri, mukhoza kuwonjezera mawu achinsinsi ndi amatsenga. Kuyamikira mwamuna wake wakale, mungathe kumunyoza ndi nthabwala. Mchitidwe woterewu udzawathandiza kuthetsa mavuto amene nthawi zina amayamba pakati pa omwe kale anali okwatirana.

• "Ngakhale kuti moyo wathu sunali wovuta, koma ndikufuna kuti mukhale ndi nyanja yabwino kuchokera kwa mkazi wanu watsopano mu banja latsopano, ngakhale kuti sangathe kuyerekeza ndi ine."

• "Lero ndinu wamkulu kwa chaka chathunthu ndipo, mwinamwake, mwaphunzira kuti musamangoganizira za inu nokha, koma mulole mayi wanu watsopano amve chisamaliro chanu ndi chikondi, chimene sindinachilandirire."

Zikomo patsiku la kubadwa kwa mwamuna wake wakale - lozizira ndi loseketsa, limamuwonetsa kuti mukuchita bwino, ndipo simudandaule chifukwa cha chisudzulo.

Wamfupi kapena wautali

Momwe mumasankhira mawu olondola ndi mawu omwe ati adzakhale, zimadalira momwe mukukhalira. Ngati kugawidwa kwadutsa popanda zopweteka komanso kusokonezana komanso mutha kulankhulana popanda kukumbukira zolakwa za wina ndi mzake, mutha kuyamika kwa mwamuna wanu wakale pa tsiku lanu lobadwa.

• "Mwamuna wanga wakale, lero, ndikufuna ndikufuneni kuti musaiwale nthawi zosangalatsa za moyo wathu wa banja." Tisanachotse ulusi womwe unatimanga pamodzi tinayamikira kwambiri zomwe tinali nazo. "

Mawu omwe amalembedwa kapena kulembedwa kwa mwamuna wakale pa tsiku lake la kubadwa ndi bwino kusankha pasadakhale, kotero kuti pamapeto omaliza sangatuluke mitu yawo ndi chisangalalo.

• "Iwe unali wa ine munthu wamtengo wapatali kwambiri padziko lapansi, ndipo tiyeni ife lero tipite m'njira zosiyanasiyana, ndikukhumba kuti usapunthwe osakhumudwa." Lolani njira yanu ikhale yophweka komanso yokondweretsa, ndipo pamapeto pake mudzakumana ndi munthu amene mukufuna kupita naye limodzi. "

Chimene chanenedwa ndi chomwe mukufuna, chiyenera kuchititsa mtima. Chiyamiko chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chabwino - simukusowa kukonzekera zakale ndikukumbukira nthawi zovuta za moyo wanu.

Ndipo kodi mukufunikira kuyamika mwamuna wanu wakale?

Funso limene mungathe kuthetsa payekha, koma ngati mutakwatirana ndi ana, ndiye kuti mwamuna wanu wakale amakhala bambo wanu wokondedwa. Palibe makolo akale-muyenera kumanga ubale wanu mutatha chisudzulo kuti ana athe kuyankhulana ndi bambo awo.

Mawu omwe akuyamikiridwa angaphatikizepo zilembo zapatulo, ndibwino kuziwerengera limodzi ndi anawo. Koma ngati simungathe kuika zilakolako zanu m'maganizo, ndibwino kunena mawu ochepa, koma anu, kusiyana ndi kuwerenga ndakatulo, koma za wina.

• "Sindingathe kuyankhula bwino, koma zokhumba zanga zonse zingakwaniritsidwe m'moyo wanu." "Chimwemwe kwa inu, mwamuna wanga wakale."

Ngati mutatha kusudzulana inu simukulankhulana ndipo maganizo anu pa moyo ndi kulera ana ndi osiyana, ndiye mutha kukhala ndi khadi la moni, zomwe mudzalemba mawu ochepa oyamikira. Kuyamikira kungakhalenso uthenga waufupi wa SMS, ngati ndi zopweteka kwambiri kumva mawu a mwamuna wakale.

Kuyamikira pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa mwamuna wake wakale, kuseketsa, kochepa, kozama, kwa nthawi yayitali - ayenera kufotokoza maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu kwa munthu wamtengo wapatali kamodzi.