Ndi BDSM zimene: Chidwi Mfundo

Aluntha chitukuko cha anthu masiku ano pa mlingo mkulu Komabe, anthu ambiri sadziwa zimene BDSM. The ambiri acronym palokha ndi chonyansa, monga liwu lofanana ndi kupotoza zoopsa umalimbana kumuchepetsa ndi kumunyoza okondedwa awo mu ululu.

Komabe, kukana okwana otaya silitiletsa anthu osangalatsidwa ndi chiyani BDSM. Ndi wokwanira kuona kuti chiwerengero cha mafunso mu kufufuza injini intaneti, kuzindikira kuti nkhaniyi ndi zogwirizana kwambiri lero. Kotero, ndi nthawi kuthetsa chifaniziro muyezo wa anthu a ubale woterewu. Ndipotu, S & M ndi imodzi mwa mitundu apamwamba kukhulupirira mnzanuyo, chifukwa inu kwathunthu kumvera wake mawu aliwonse. Pa dzanja limodzi, wamphamvu afika mphamvu zonse ndipo akhoza kuchita ndi okondedwa wanu chilichonse chomwe akufuna. Komano, liri ndi udindo waukulu chifukwa mzere pakati pa chisangalalo ndi khalidwe lowononga thanzi ndi woonda kwambiri.

Ngati munthuyo kufunsa, kodi ukapolo, m'maganizo mwake, monga ulamuliro, pali chithunzi cha munthu lamba kavalidwe ndi mkwapulo m'manja mwake, afika chimwemwe kupereka ululu. anthu ochepa amadziwa kuti aliyense masewera timasewero kusewera, imene wina ukulamulira zina, zili zake kale gulu la BDSM. Choncho, sikuti kupweteka mnzake, Mugulu chabe imalongosola nkhope yanu ndi chimango. ubwenzi BDSM zachokera malamulo zitatu:

1. Othandiza kulowa Mchitidwe umenewu pa maziko yaufulu, kuti pali ena mgwirizano pakati pawo za malire a chovomerezeka. Kupitirira zosangalatsa zovomerezeka lalikulu zoletsedwa.
2. The banja akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito Chalk kulikonse kwa BDSM, amene, tisaiwale, anthu ambiri amagulitsidwa m'masitolo zapaderazi. Komabe, aliyense kanthu ayenera kulingalira ndi bwino ndinaganiza. Komanso, anzanga Pre-anapereka otchedwa mawu amasiya. Ndipo ngati wamphamvu awoloka mzere amaloledwa kapena Saab akufuna pakamwa ndondomeko, ndi zokwanira kunena mawu, sonyezani-wotseka manja. Izi kamodzinso zikugwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti mu ubale BDSM zochokera zinthu mothandizana ndi zilakolako za gulu lililonse ali n'komwe.
3. Ndipo, ndithudi, zofunika kwambiri - ndi chitetezo. Ndi palibe chinsinsi chimene sadomasochism amalola masewera monga kumanga kapena kuzunzika, choncho nkhani ya chitetezo cha bwenzi ali mu malo oyamba. Dominants akhale kwathunthu ndi kwathunthu m'manja mwa kusunga okondedwa, monga yotsirizira amagwa mu mtundu wa mantha kuchokera osiyanasiyana zomverera zachilendo.

Pofotokoza zimene BDSM ubale, ine ndikufuna kuona kuti si nthawi zonse monga mwachindunji kugonana. Ndiko kuti, okondedwa akhoza kukhuta kuchokera yotopetsa wozunzikirapo okwana kapena ntchito Chalk wapadera. A lalikulu, nayenso, afika wosangalala kwambiri ku kumverera kwa ukulu wawo ndi mphamvu. Choona chidwi ndi kuti zosokoneza izi pafupifupi 80% ya amayi kusankhidwa udindo wa Saabs kapena akapolo, ndi, kufuna kumvera amuna ndi kwenikweni muzisangalala.