Kulankhulana kwa mogwirizana ndi

Aliyense amafuna kulankhula chibadwire. Kulankhulana pakati pa anthu akhoza kugawidwa mu mbali zitatu zofunika: kuzindikira, kulankhulana ndi anzake. Chidwi n'chakuti ngati n'zotheka kukakomana ndi maganizo kapena kulankhulana "mtundu woyera", ndiye, kuwonjezera pa zigawo zina zonse kulankhulana, ndiye kusankha Communication monga zimachitika mu mzere osiyana kuli kovuta.

Dzina la ndondomeko izi kale lili ndi kufunika kwa ntchito ya kanthu: "Iye anakankhira ine kuchita chilichonse," "Amatithandiza kuthamanga pa ine, koma ine sindikupatsani" kapena "Ndi Amasintha kwa ine".

Communication monga mogwirizana amafuna nawo yogwira mu zokambirana za interlocutors awiri. Ndipo ngati kulankhulana kulankhula malire ndi kulankhula za nkhani, ndi kuzindikira - basi auscultation maganizo a anthu ena, muli ndi anachita interlocutor amaika ndondomeko kulankhulana ndi gulu osiyana.

Anthu ena amavutika kulankhulana. Pali zifukwa zosiyana kwambiri. Satha kulankhula bwinobwino, amalephera kufotokoza maganizo awo, manyazi ndi manyazi kutsogolera chakuti munthu chatsekedwa mkati yokha, amatha okha kuzindikira, koma zikuoneka Kodi samva Zimene.

Pang'onopang'ono, anthu amene ndikungofuna mpweya zofunika poyankha interlocutor munthu wina kuyamba kutenga chonse. Ndipo pachabe! Nthawi zambiri, chifukwa manyazi ndi detachment kunja amabisa wofatsa wachifundo mtima, ndipo mkati nthawi zonse amachitika ntchito zozama. Ndipo ngati munthu adzatha "kulankhula" kupambana pa chilengedwe, kutembenukira ndi maganizo wamba mu kulankhulana monga anzake, iye ndi mwayi kwambiri. Best mlangizi ndi mnzake, mwina, sanapezeke mu dziko lonse.

Anthu ena amakhala kuchitika makamaka akazi, amenenso kumabweretsa mavuto interlocutors akamalankhula chakuti amakonda yekha kommukativnuyu mbali ya zokambirana. anthu oterewa, iwo ali ngati grouse nkhuni pa lek lapansi. Kuika palibe mfundo yabwino, sakuganiza ngati ndi chidwi kwa wina aliyense koma iwo amalowerera awo mawonekedwe kulankhulana ndi mwamtheradi chidwi maganizo a interlocutor lapansi. Izi "masewera ndi cholinga chimodzi chokha" - si ndi kulankhulana monga zimachitika!

Kodi mukufuna kudziwa munthu wokhala mnzanga zosangalatsa kapena cholinga kutsimikizira kanthu kalikonse kapena kugwiritsa ntchito foni ya kusintha maganizo ake "mnzake"?

Ngakhale kuti onse a ife timaganiza kuti chinachake kwenikweni zikuchitika, ndiyeno ife kucheza, si koyenera kuphunzitsa onse chomwecho pali malamulo ena a kukambirana. Ndipotu kwenikweni kusunga kukambirana - ndi sayansi!

The chikhalidwe choyamba kuchitika pakati pa awiri kwa kukambirana ngati ndi anzake, kwa chomwecho ndi kothandiza - ichi ndi kugawa molondola za interlocutors maudindo. Ndiko kuti, pa nthawi iliyonse munthu ali mwini ndi zina - kapolo. Tikukambirana ayenera kutsatira "unyolo lamulo".

kutsogolera malo alinso magawano yake mu "bwana" ndi "ponimatelya". Mbali yoyamba, kulankhulana zachokera chilakolako woyang'anira zinthu ndi chilakolako yakulamulira. kulankhulana ndi anthu zonse zimasangalatsa kapolo, kotero kwenikweni anthu yesani zochepa ngati n'kotheka kulankhula ndi anthu - ". owayang'anila"

Ngati chachiwiri, udindo waukulu Tingaone monga zochokera maganizo kuyanjana kwa interlocutors lapansi. Apa udindo waukulu ankaimba ndi chilakolako kutsogolera kusamalira popanda nkhondo, kumvetsa mnzanuyo komanso kukwaniritsa pangano mgwirizano, ndipo patsogolo zogwira mtima za zokambirana. Ndi anthu amenewa yokoma kwambiri kulankhula amayamikira ozungulira ngakhale kaya zotsatira moonadi anali weniweni. Pambuyo kukhudzana ndi anthu a nkhungu wake akusamba masamba kumverera zosangalatsa kuti munthu wina kulowerera mu vuto ndipo anayesa kuthandiza.

Ndizoonekeratu kuchokera zopanda uyu: ngati inu mukufuna kuti anthu azikamba ndipo akufuna pokhudzana ndi inu, kuyesetsa kuwamvetsa, kuima pa malo ofanana, ngakhale kuti ndinu anapempha kapena malangizo.