Kodi Kwatirani?

Mmene tingagonjetsere gawo loyamba la chikondi, yandikira kwa cholinga kufunika - kukwatira wokondedwa. Amasonyeza mkazi aliyense. Kodi kukopa tcheru chonde, osati mantha, kuuzira kanthu, ndipo kukhazikitsa m'khola ubale? N'kofunika gawo loyamba la chikondi, ndipo panthawi imeneyi tilibe mwadala amalakwa, ndipo ngakhale kugwetsera ulusi woonda tangoyamba kunyanyala kukwera paubale ndi munthu amene mwina pothera pathu. Ife basi sindikuganiza za mawu ndi zochita zawo. Ndipo onse ayamba?

Kodi kudzoza popanda iye. Pakuti mgwirizano koyamba ndi mlendo, ayenera kukhala chisoni. Books "momwe chidwi munthu ndi kukwatiwa," anatero kwambiri, koma pano tiona wina. Ndi mmene kukonza chifukwa cha kupambana choyamba ndipo kuti kuwopsyeza munthu kulabadira kwa inu ndi kuitana pa chibwenzi. Ndipotu, zotsatira za msonkhano woyamba angakhale osiyana. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kudziwa chimene chiri pafupi, mwinamwake m'tsogolo naye izi. Kodi mukudziwa mudakonda iye?

Tip kapena chizindikiro kuti munthu ndinu chidwi, atha kutumikira ngati mwatsatanetsatane zinkaoneka zazing'ono. Ndipo mkazi aliyense akhale wokhoza molondola kumvetsa izi, ndithudi, ngati iye angathe kutaya chilakolako ndi chizolowezi mopusa wa nkhambakamwa chabe weniweni. Nthawi zambiri tilibe amakana zindikirani choonadi losavuta kotero likukhalira osokonezeka, kakasi, chidwi.

Mudakonda iye, ngati:

- iye kumwetulira, wodala nthabwala kwambiri za iye mwini, kuganizira inu mosangalala.

- zimapangitsa zoyesayesa wamanyazi chibwenzi, iye amapereka ake dzanja, odula, ayisikilimu amachitira, mphatso ndi maluwa etc.

- akufuna kukhala pafupi ndi inu (kani, izo zimachitika mosalingalira), mwangozi chikugwirani inu, amatenga dzanja, limayenda pafupi.

- woyamba akuyamba kulankhula za msonkhano wotsatira akatenga nambala ya foni ndi kumene mphete.

Inu Sanasangalale ngati:

- watenga Mwachidule pa, nkhani za kanthu chete kwambiri.

- m'magulu wake nkhawa, kapena pa mwake, amachitira zinthu lidamasuka, tiyeni auve, incorrectness mwa ziganizo, chosasamala posamalira,
imene inu chapatali.

- sachita manyazi, ine ndimayang'ana pa akazi ena,

- samandivera zimene mukunena, yawning, ali wotopetsa tione. Njira yabwino kwa inu - ndi kuwasiya.

- musatenge nambala yanu ya foni, osati kunena oikidwa atsopano, kuyitana palibe more ...

Ine ndikuyembekeza chirichonse chiri bwino! Back mu chibwenzi oyambirira anthu amafuna chidwi pa wina ndi mzake. Choncho, kuonetsa yokha yokha ndi dzanja bwino, mwachibadwa ndi zabwinobwino. Mwinanso zolondola. Ndithudi, aliyense amalakwitsa ang'onoang'ono, mwinanso kosatha tisiye inu ndi mzake, ndipo inu konse munali moyo akazi kapena ayi. Monga musapusitsidwe ndipo usadalire paokha luso zamatsenga. Ndi zosatheka kumvetsa pa Mwachidule.

Kwambiri chikondi thobvu pakamwa pa idzatsimikizira choonadi cha chikondi pa kuwonana koyamba. Kumene, chilakolako n'lakuti pamene pali kugula poyamba. Koma ziri kumulakalaka, kukopa choyamba, chikondi, mwinamwake m'tsogolo kukula mu chikondi, ndipo mwina wopirikitsidwa ngati utsi. Siteji yoyamba ya moyandikana ndi masiku angapo kuti miyezi ingapo. Monga musawafulumizitse. Tiyeni zonse akupitiriza mawonekedwe mwamsanga ndipo mosavuta, chisoni chanu kwa wina ndi mzake ayenera kupeza bata.

Akazi ambiri molondola kuzindikira poyamba gawo ubwenzi ndi kuyamba kuona chitsimikizo cha ubale yaitali tsogolo la banja losangalala. Iwo kale maganizo mwamatapo Sitampu mu pasipoti yokha. Ndiyeno iwo maganizo, kukhumudwa, ndi kuipidwa pamene ankayembekezera zavumbulutsidwa yekha nyumba ya makadi.

Wina mofulumira pa kuikidwa loyamba kufunsa funso opusa: "Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi ana," kapena "Kodi inu mukufuna kukhala ndi makolo awo kapena makolo a mkazi wake."

Munthu nawe m'chikondi yekha pa mlingo thupi (kugunda choyamba, kuchititsa munthu kusamalira inu), ndipo ngati kuyamba kutumiza mavuto ena. Iye sangakhoze kumvetsa iwo pakali pano ndi kuthawa. Mwina pa wachinayi kapena wachisanu siteji ya mgwirizano wanu nkhani zimenezi zidzakhala zogwirizana kwambiri. Only kwa iwo akadali pitirira.