Kaya koyera chibwenzi pa ubwenzi zofunika?

Mkazi aliyense, kuchokera nthawi imene iye anazindikira kuti iye anali mkazi, kulota za chibwenzi. Izi zikugwirizana ndi madona a mibadwo yonse. Kale kuyambira sukulu ya mkaka, atsikana mukufuna kusewera ndi anyamata, ndi kuyesetsa kupambana chidwi. Kodi chimachitika pamene atsikana kukula, timadzi mudzaze danga zonse zilipo mu thupi. Iwo kale sindikusowa kanthu: makolowo safuna kuphunzira wotopa osatinso chimakakamiza palibe kuvina, palibe nyimbo. Tsopano malingaliro anga onse yekha ndi momwe "iye" anayang'ana mmwamba, ndipo anati kuti ngati iye anaitanidwa ku msonkhano mawa.

Zonse zapita m'badwo pamene mukufuna kuyenda mu paki, atagwira cholembera ndi kuyang'ana pa wina ndi mzake ndi maso achikondi.

Oddly zokwanira, ndi achinyamata onse chinachake omveka bwino msinkhu ndi nthawi ngati kusintha kwambiri pa moyo ndi worldview.

Koma akuluakulu akazi okhwima amene apeza chinthu moyo, ali maganizo ake ndi udindo pa anthu. Amene sakanakhoza kunena kuti, koma akazi awa mukufuna kukhala mu miyoyo yawo ndi chikondi zachikondi. Ambiri malonda wabizinesi kolimba kwambiri kukana mfundo imeneyi, koma, ngakhalebe, ikhala inviolate. Ndipo iwo akufuna mu chibwenzi anali wangwiro zachikondi. Ndipotu, munthu olongosoka akukumana kumverera kwa chikondi m'njira ina kwa chikondi lapamtima.

ubale si Nthawi zambiri chikondi choyera, monga mwa mayendedwe amakono a moyo salola kuti tikhale ndi nyenyezi ndi kuyang'ana pa mwezi, pamene tikufuna. zikhalidwe kutiyika ife mu chimango yotero, kuti chibwenzi adakali nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Koma, koma, mkazi aliyense ndi zabwino kuona mu m'mawa tsiku kutali maluwa atsopano a chrysanthemums mu chipinda, ndi momwe mungazipezere kusunga ndi chifundo pamene mwamuna wanu kapena bwenzi akubweretsa m'mawa khofi mu bedi, kunong'onezana mu khutu lanu zokondweretsa mwachikondi.

Ochepa mphindi chikondi mu moyo muyenera aliyense, iwo kubweretsa kwambiri maganizo abwino ndi mphamvu mphamvu kwa nthawi yaitali.

Tayerekezerani kuti inuyo kuntchito wotopa ndi lotopetsa, sadzachitanso anafika kunyumba ndi monyinyirika anavula nsapato yake. Mwamuna anali ndithu mwangozi kunyumba (makamaka anachoka msanga kuti inu zabwino) ndi kale ndakonza chakudya chamasana ndi kudya mumaikonda, kutsanulira mu mphika wa madzi otentha ndi thovu ndi makandulo anayatsa. Kodi mkazi angakane kuti kumva ndi osangalatsa? Ndi koyera chibwenzi, pamene anthu angathe kulankhula za chikondi chawo osati ndi mawu.

Akazi, wokongola, musaleke, ngati muli munthu anaganiza kuchita chinachake, ndipo ine sindiri mwa njira iliyonse kutsutsa!

Ngakhale ngati inu simutero kwenikweni ngati zodabwitsa, ndi chakudya pang'ono yopsereza, si koyenera kulankhula za izo. Ndi bwino kumpsompsona iye ndi kunena mmene mumamukonda.

Achikondi zimapangitsa banja, mogwirizana ndi bwino. Ndiyamika zosangalatsa awa yaing'ono, maubale ali akewo koma mowirikiza ikusintha. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena okwatirana akhala pa banja kwa zaka khumi, anaganiza kukwatiwa mu mpingo kapena kungoti kukonza ukwati chachiwiri. Ichi chokha kumalimbitsa mgwirizano wawo.

Ndiyamika chikondi pang'ono, tikhoza kuiwala za mavuto, kusamalira ana ndi mavuto kuntchito. Inu simungakhoze kuganiza za kalikonse, kusangalala mzake.

Ine ndikufuna azibambo, musazengereze kukhala chikondi, ziribe kanthu momwe kwambiri ndi wodzidalira mkazi sikunathandize bukuli ndipo adzakhala oyamikira kwambiri chifukwa zikhumbo zanu zachikondi, ngati uli wangwiro zachikondi.

Kumbukirani mawu kuchokera wotchuka filimu "Izitu n'zovutitsa wa Choikidwiratu", pamene theka ataledzera Jack (a protagonist) akuti sankasangalala Hippolyte: "Ife tayiwala mmene kuchita zazikulu kupusa wabwino Taleka kukwera pawindo kwa mkazi anakonda .."

Wokondedwa amuna wokondedwa, ife akazi kwenikweni ndikufuna inu mukhale kumbuyo kuchita zabwino, wokongola, zoseketsa komanso osangalatsa kupusa!