Chinsinsi kusiyana - ndi njira ya chikoka pa kutsitsimuka

Kuphunzira zinachitikira kapangidwe amalenga NLP njira njira kumutsatira ndi cholinga kusintha. Zithunzi zomwe zili ndipo umasamutsidwa ku anthu ena. Apo ayi, mukhoza kunena kuti ngati munthu woyamba mungachite kuti izo chimodzimodzi, ndi akhoza chachiwiri. Ndikofunikira kudziwa ndondomeko ya zochita za choyamba ndi kuphunzitsa chachiwiri.

NLP luso zitsanzo

Kusanthula zifanizo za khalidwe, neuro-zinenero mapulogalamu amapulumutsira wa iwo zothandiza maluso ena zofunika, limene chitsanzo analenga molondola zinthu zosiyanasiyana za khalidwe ogwira.

Mosiyana ndi kuwerenga maganizo tingachipeze powerenga, NLP katswiri sanamukonza malingaliro wodwalayo ndi amaponya yomalizidwa bwino chitsanzo khalidwe mu izo.

kutsirikidwa NLP

njira mapulogalamu neuro-zinenero ali makamaka chifukwa cha mfundo za zachinyengo mankhwala Erickson. Komabe, njira imeneyi tikunena mwachindunji zambiri kutsirikidwa ndi boma chizimbwizimbwi, pamene NLP ikufotokoza luso nyumba anthu, kumutsatira luso ndi kuwaphunzitsa ena.

zotsatira zachinyengo mu neuro-zinenero mapulogalamu zachokera njira kutsirikidwa chitachitika. Njira imeneyi imakhala zidule mawu, kuchita mdani ndipo amatilola kukwaniritsa chimene mukufuna m'madera onse a ntchito. Nthawi zambiri, monga chida Impact amachita "Bokosi kusiyana".

izi akatswiri gawo amakhulupirira kuti Mokhumbira kulikonse kumene anali Sikuti kudzaza cones ayenera yekha kuphunzira mmene kutengera chitsanzo bwino khalidwe.

Yoyamba njira ndi mpheto chikugwirabe "nangula"

Monga tanena ntchito NLP anthu angathandize maganizo a osati achilendo, komanso wake, kuthana ndi mantha awo tikwaniritse zotsatira analakalaka ntchito zina. Pali njira ziwiri kuti chagwiritsidwa Mwaichi, - "nangula" ndipo "kusiyana chitsanzo".

"Anchor" - ndi kutengeka zabwino, kukumbukira kuchita zabwino. nangula unsembe sikovuta. Mwachitsanzo, pambuyo khalidwe la ntchito anachita angagwiritsidwe ntchito kumva wosangalatsa wa nkhani kapena mphoto wauzimu. Akukhulupirira kuti odwala ndi kukhazikitsidwa "nangula" adzakhala wolimbikitsidwa kwambiri Mokhumbira.

Njira ya chiwiri ya mpheto chikugwirabe

njira ina yosokoneza chikumbumtima, amene amapereka NLP - "yopuma chitsanzo". Anthu ankaona khalidwe lililonse kapena ndondomeko ya zochita pankhani inayake. Kaya chilakolako chake munthu m'kupita ndichititse chinachake kwa automatism. Pantchito khalidwe atsogolere ntchito ya chikumbumtima, kumasula izo kuchokera ntchito wonyong'onya wa miniti iliyonse kutenga lingaliro lomwelo.

kusiyana chitsanzo - izi ndi mosayembekezereka mawu kapena sanali muyezo kanthu anachita zinthu zachilendo. Zidindo kuswa kukwaniritsa ufulu mkati, maganizo atsopano kafukufuku phobias.

Njira monga "nangula" ndi "yopuma chitsanzo", ndi kuwerenga maganizo mu mawonetseredwe ake chakale alibe kuzindikira. Komabe, kuchita zikusonyeza kuti, ngakhale izi, mankhwala kumabweretsa zotsatira zabwino.

kusiyana chitsanzo: Zitsanzo ndi vuto

Zitsanzo Chitsanzo makhalidwe generic ndi:

• Anayankha chanza. munthu dzanja lake kwa inu, ndipo ndinamugwedeza iye yachiwiri kwambiri.
• Inu Belo belu, ndipo nthawi yomweyo anapita kutsegula izo.
• Pa funso mmene kuchita, inu sanazengereze kuyankha komanso.
• Pamene foni mphete, inu kukatenga foni.
• Ngati munthu yells pa iwe kapena kukwiya kapena kukweza mawu anu ayankhe.

Sanangowononga Chinsinsi cha. Sankhani chitsanzo cha khalidwe limene mukupita kusintha, ndi kumachita mosiyana kapena zosayembekezeka njira. Mwachitsanzo, zikatero:

• Pambuyo makani, musati kupitiriza kupita mwakuya mu mdima kukambirana mkati, ndipo kuyimba nyimbo mokondwera kapena kulumpha pa mwendo umodzi.
• Ngati inu ntchito kuyenda ntchito ndi kunyumba ndi njira yomweyo, kusintha izo. Pitani njira zina kapena kukwera basi ina.
• Yamba kuchita chinachake tisanachitepo. Mwachitsanzo: kuchotsa zinyalala pakhomo la nyumba yake. Ndipotu palibe munthu amachita chidwi kwa iye. Kapena kuthandiza grader oyamba kusuntha kuwoloka msewu m'mawa, pamene onse afulumira ntchito, komanso amene ali kufuna kuti.
• Mwachitsanzo, muli anazolowera zonse kukhala pachakudya panyumba? Kusintha chizolowezi. Pitani nkhomaliro mu cafe lapansi.

Njira njira ya M'manja kusiyana

Kodi munaganizapo mmene zinthu munthu iwe akadandaule dzanja mu moni, koma anaweramuka theka lake? Kapena funso muli bwanji, mudzayamba nkhani mokwanira ndi mwatsatanetsatane mmene zinthu mukuchita?

Kumene, anthu amagwa chisokonezo. Ndi mtundu wa chizimbwizimbwi, imene woyimba adzakhala mu nthawi yochepa.

Munthu akhoza kugwera ngati akanthawi chizimbwizimbwi kokha pamene kusiyana chitsanzo limapezeka pa anuwo. Chizimbwizimbwi si cholinga, ndiye njira kukwaniritsa cholingacho.

Ntchito yanu - zimakhudza khalidwe la interlocutor kuti akhale angaliphunzirire. mpheto ya chagona pa mfundo yakuti pakati pa chisokonezo zokhudza anafunsa funso lake, kupempha, kuika maganizo enieni. Ngakhale mu chizimbwizimbwi, munthu adzakhala okonzeka kugwira aliyense wa lingaliro kwa iye. Izi ndi njira neurolinguistic. kusiyana chitsanzo lizisunga mwakamodzi, mwinamwake inu simungapeze zotsatira ankafuna.