Ana zikugwira "izi" - mmene zinthu wamkulu?

Ana a zaka sukulu ndi zachilendo makhalidwe ofanana pathological monga woyamwa zidole, zala misomali chikudya, kuseweretsa maliseche (kuseweretsa maliseche). vutolo likhoza kukula pamene kholo wapeza mwana akusewera ndi kumaliseche awo. Zimene choyamba - mantha, nthawi zina chilakolako kulanga khalidwe loipa. Koma pambuyo dzanzi zidzachoka, pewani kulalatira mbama manja a mwanayo ayenera kukhala zosavuta kuthana ndi vutoli ndi kumvetsa mmene zinthu ndi chochita pamene ana akuchita "izo."

Kuseweretsa maliseche mwana wamng'ono. Kodi kuchita?

Inu kukula mwana zodabwitsa, ndi kamodzi apo pakubwera nthawi imene inu munazindikira kuti mwana wokhudza kapena amaseweretsa maliseche ake. funso n'lakuti: ndichiyani? chidwi ana, umene ndi zachilendo mu chitukuko cha mwana, kapena chizolowezi pathological - kuseweretsa maliseche (kuseweretsa maliseche)? Ndipo ngati ana angathe kuchita "iye"?

Statement vuto

Nthawi zambiri, pa chitukuko cha mwana limapezeka chidwi kuphunzira thupi mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ana kuona anzawo komanso akuluakulu maliseche thupi, nthawi yomweyo chimodzimodzi chidwi chili pa iwo kuphunzira thupi lanu zomverera mwini. Ana kufufuza kumaliseche awo kudzera masewera, kukanda, akumunena kapena apisanjike manja. Imeneyi, palibe cholakwika, pali ndondomeko chidziwitso. Koma ngati mwana uyu akukumana zabwino mtima, amene amakhala lalikulu, mangolomera wa maliseche chimakhala zonse kwa iye.

Kodi n'zotheka kuthana ndi "kuti" ana?

Komabe oyambirira mu zaka 2-3 kulankhula ndi mwana zokhudza kuseweretsa maliseche, popeza sadziwa chimene kuseweretsa maliseche sakudziwa chomwe kukhudza okha ndipo ena mwa malo wapamtima ankaona chosayenera. Kuseweretsa maliseche - wonyalanyaza njira, mmene kumaliseche maganizo amapezeka. Nthawi zambiri kuti "" kuti agone pa malo abwino. Ngati kuseweretsa maliseche zikuchitika nthawi zonse, ndiye ilo limakhala pathological chizolowezi.
Ngati mwana wapempha mafunso okhudza kapangidwe lotseguka thupi, kusiyana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi kapena mtsikana ndi mkazi, m'pofunika kuchita zinthu mwaulemu ndi kuyankha mafunso ana, ndipo sachita nawo manyazi. Izi ndi chidwi zachilengedwe ndi chinthu chatsopano mu chitukuko cha maganizo ndi chidziwitso cha dziko. Kawirikawiri, chidwi n'lakuti zaka zapakati pa zaka 3 mpaka 6, ndiye akuzimirira kutali, mpaka akamakula.

Predictors wa kuseweretsa maliseche ana

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  Thupi - chifukwa cha yolimbikira makhalidwe chofunika kumaliseche kwa m'maganizo.
• Psychological - mu mwana kudzikayikira kupanda pake, amaona kuti kusungulumwa, sakondedwa, pali kusowa chikondi cha kholo ndi chidwi.
• Matenda - osauka kugona ndi tisagone kwa kutsogolera yaitali kuti pakufunika inanso yothandiza.

Kumachititsanso maonekedwe a kuseweretsa maliseche zikhoza kukhala zotsatira zina:

• kudzipatula kwa anthu a ana;
• excitability mkulu ndi mtima wa mwanayo;
• kuzizira kwa mayi kapena impulsiveness atate;
• kumenya;
• ngati kugonana wa mwana amene sanaonepo zoyembezereka za makolo.

Kodi kuchita?

Choncho, ana aang'ono akuchita izo nthawi zambiri. Ngati inu anagwira mwana wanu kuseweretsa maliseche, poyamba pa zonse, musati kugwera swoon ndi, anadzudzula mwana wawo kapena kuti chinkhoswe mu nkhanza. M'pofunika kusonyeza kudziletsa ndi munthu pazipita mwanzeru.

Ngati mwana ali wamng'ono, kuyesera mwakachetechete kuloza kuganizira chinachakenso choti ndichite. Ngati ndi mwana wa zaka sukulu, khalidwe bata n'chofunikanso. Pamene adzatha kumvera inu, muyenera kambiranani, koma Mulimonsemo sikutheka amazunza ndiponso kuopseza. Zinthu zimenezi pa makolo zitha kukulitsa nkhaniyo. Zingonena nokha kuti ndibwino ngati ana akuchita "izo." The sukulu akhoza kukhala ndi iwo adzamutsutsa nkhani zamaganizo, komanso kunyumba kulankhulana ndi mwana, osati "ovuta" iye.

Kodi muyenera kuchita kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kunalibe chizolowezi pathological?

Sitepe yoyamba ndi kupeza chifukwa cha kuseweretsa maliseche. Sayenera kuperekedwa zofunika kwambiri ndi kuopseza mwana kuipa kochita zinthu zoipa. Nthawi zambiri, ndiponso kumuopseza mwamantha kuvulaza malingaliro mwanayo ndi kuswa m'tsogolo.

Inu simungakhoze kukambirana nkhani zosasangalatsa, kusintha basi njira ya maphunziro. ana nthawi zambiri n'chiyani kuchokera kupanda chidwi ndi pamene makolo kusiya iye yekha. Kutamanda mwanayo, kulimbikitsa mawu a makhalidwe, zimamuthandiza okwanira kuchuluka kwa zolimbitsa thupi. Mwana wanu ufulu wosankha kulankhula zambiri naye pa ulusi lotayirira, kupewa lecturing ndi moralizing, tiphunzire bwino kuyankha maonekedwe a maganizo. Nthawi azichitira matenda okhudzana urology ndi matenda achikazi.

M'pofunikanso kuwayang'anira boma la zovala ankavala ndi mwanayo. Zinthu kukhala oyera, omasuka. Musati manyazi mwana, kukambirana nkhani ya kuseweretsa maliseche kutsogolo kwa alendo, musati kukonza kuyankhulana ndi mayeso. Athandizeni kupeza chizolowezi, ndi zosangalatsa atsopano kukhala nokha, iye apitirize iye azikhala.

Tisaiwale kuti kuseweretsa maliseche - ndi njira ndiyotani pakuchotsa maganizo. Ngati inu kuchotsa voteji gwero, ndipo kufunika idzapita kuwaza maganizo. Ngati chizolowezi pathological amalimbikira mpaka zaka 10, muyenera kukaonana ndi katswiri, chifukwa chifukwa cha kuseweretsa maliseche ku m'badwo uno bwino zimayamba ndi kukopa anthu ndi mavuto a m'maganizo.

Kuchuluka Hyper mwana kapena oyambirira chitukuko psychosexual kungachititse kuti kuseweretsa maliseche. ana ambiri zikugwira ichi, chifukwa iwo sangathe kulimbana ndi kusonyeza woyambirira. Kupezerera imeneyi chilibe ntchito. Ana thandizo lanu ndi kumvetsa. Muyenera kudziwa kuti oyambirira chitukuko psychosexual akhoza ndipo amafunika chithandizo, mwinamwake kenako mizu kuseweretsa maliseche zimene zingachititse matenda aakulu maganizo ana.

pomaliza

Makolo n'kusiya misampha ya vuto sikungathetse chifukwa cha makhalidwe pathological. Kupewa ayenera matenda a asapita m'banja, mogwirizana ndi mwanayo, anapereka ubwenzi zofewa akulimbitsa naye. Zosowazo maganizo a mwana mu chisamaliro ndi chikondi, nthawi zonse bungwe kukasangalala thupi, komanso amathandiza kuti chitukuko cha zilandiridwenso ana. Ndiyeno vuto la zimene ana akuchita "nkhani" idzapita chokha!